Why paying attention to everything is bad for manifesting
We are all observers because an observer is simply someone who watches or notices something. But are you what I refer to as “merely” an observer? As in only an observer. As in solely an observer. Because if you are merely an observer most or all of the time, you are very likely lowering your […]
Continued...5 tips for when you’re feeling high vibe
If you’ve been practicing Law of Attraction for awhile, you may notice you are feeling better than you have in the past. You may notice you are feeling good more of the time. Whereas before you were used to routinely hanging out in the middle of the emotional scale or even lower, these days you […]
Continued...Alignment is the difference in which kind of magnet you are
I’ve been thinking a lot about alignment lately. Recently a spate of clients have been asking about the difference between alignment in general and an alignment practice. Questions have come up like, What if my alignment practice stops working? Do I have to have a so-called practice to get in alignment? Isn’t relying on coffee […]
Continued...It’s never the action you take that really matters
The other day a client and I were talking about makeup. Now at first that might sound very off-topic for an LoA-themed coaching call, but it was actually exactly on point. We were talking about how practices and routines have changed during the recent months of sheltering in place. And one of those practices was […]
Continued...Do you tell a story of scarcity, of lack, of not enoughness?
What is the story you tell about your finances? What are the things you say about money? What are your thoughts about abundance? Do you tell a story of scarcity, of lack, of not enoughness? Do you talk about what you can’t afford or how expensive things are? Do you think money is hard to […]
Continued...Having both meditation and visualization in your LoA toolkit is ideal
Every now and again a client asks me, Should I meditate? Should I visualize? Which should I do—meditate or visualize? Well, first, there is no “should” about it. If you are meditating because you think you should, there’s likely friction in your vibration around doing it. Same goes with visualizing. So I would start by […]
Continued...Have you ever thought about what negative emotion is telling you?
Understanding what negative emotion is telling you can soften the experience of what you’re feeling and help you actually appreciate the feedback you’re getting. Wait a minute! Did I just say you could actually appreciate something about the experience of negative emotion? Yes…yes I did! And you’ll soon find out why. Let’s begin by exploring […]
Continued...It feels bad wanting something you don’t think you can manifest
Every now and again someone comes to me for coaching who says, I don’t know what I want. And sometimes, this is accurate. The person really doesn’t know what she wants. In which case a powerful first step is to make your desire known to the Universe. You can simply say, I want to know […]
Continued...Are you offering a positive point of attraction related to abundance?
This is a juicy post about money, judgment, alignment and minding your own business. It all started with a recent coaching session that got me thinking about how we can push the very things we want away from ourselves—without meaning to and sometimes without even realizing it. So here’s the backstory: I recently worked with […]
Continued...4 types of attachment that are not good for manifesting
I want to talk about attachment. Specifically, we’ll look at four types of attachment and how each lowers your point of attraction. Many of us, myself included at times, are very attached to our attachment! Which is kind of funny when you think about it. Let’s begin with the first type of attachment. Attachment to […]
Continued...Many of us are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted
Here’s something I’ve noticed: Many of us, without realizing it, are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted. Here’s why that is so important: You cannot focus on unwanted and receive wanted. Which bring me to one of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction: The Stick Analogy. Think of going out […]
Continued...Do you recognize yourself in either of these ways of thinking about time?
Let’s talk about time. Specifically, I want to talk about two ways you might be lowering your point of attraction because of your relationship with time. Those two ways can be summed up with: There’s not enough time and Why is what I want taking so long? Do you recognize yourself in either of these […]
Continued...Why is the same thing happening over and again?
Recently several clients have come to coaching because they are frustrated or confused or discouraged about repeatedly attracting the same unwanted situation into their lives. This might sound like: Why is the same thing happening over and again? Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing? Whether it is the same unwanted type of […]
Continued...Many of us think of freedom as an external thing
“The basis of your life: Absolute freedom. The purpose of your life: Joy. The result of your life: Expansion.” —Abraham I want to focus on that first part. What does it mean—the basis of your life is absolute freedom? And are you living that way? Are you showing up in your life from the mindset […]
Continued...Trying to control others attracts more to be controlled
Trying to control others doesn’t feel good. Which means means trying to control others is really bad for your point of attraction. The type of control I’m talking about can take many forms. Trying to control others can be about their behavior or perceptions or the decisions they make. Trying to control others can be […]
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