Have you ever thought about what negative emotion is telling you?
Understanding what negative emotion is telling you can soften the experience of what you’re feeling and help you actually appreciate the feedback you’re getting. Wait a minute! Did I just say you could actually appreciate something about the experience of negative emotion? Yes…yes I did! And you’ll soon find out why. Let’s begin by exploring […]
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It feels bad wanting something you don’t think you can manifest
Every now and again someone comes to me for coaching who says, I don’t know what I want. And sometimes, this is accurate. The person really doesn’t know what she wants. In which case a powerful first step is to make your desire known to the Universe. You can simply say, I want to know […]
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Are you offering a positive point of attraction related to abundance?
This is a juicy post about money, judgment, alignment and minding your own business. It all started with a recent coaching session that got me thinking about how we can push the very things we want away from ourselves—without meaning to and sometimes without even realizing it. So here’s the backstory: I recently worked with […]
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4 types of attachment that are not good for manifesting
I want to talk about attachment. Specifically, we’ll look at four types of attachment and how each lowers your point of attraction. Many of us, myself included at times, are very attached to our attachment! Which is kind of funny when you think about it. Let’s begin with the first type of attachment. Attachment to […]
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Many of us are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted
Here’s something I’ve noticed: Many of us, without realizing it, are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted. Here’s why that is so important: You cannot focus on unwanted and receive wanted. Which bring me to one of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction: The Stick Analogy. Think of going out […]
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Do you recognize yourself in either of these ways of thinking about time?
Let’s talk about time. Specifically, I want to talk about two ways you might be lowering your point of attraction because of your relationship with time. Those two ways can be summed up with: There’s not enough time and Why is what I want taking so long? Do you recognize yourself in either of these […]
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Why is the same thing happening over and again?
Recently several clients have come to coaching because they are frustrated or confused or discouraged about repeatedly attracting the same unwanted situation into their lives. This might sound like: Why is the same thing happening over and again? Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing? Whether it is the same unwanted type of […]
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Many of us think of freedom as an external thing
“The basis of your life: Absolute freedom. The purpose of your life: Joy. The result of your life: Expansion.” —Abraham I want to focus on that first part. What does it mean—the basis of your life is absolute freedom? And are you living that way? Are you showing up in your life from the mindset […]
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Trying to control others attracts more to be controlled
Trying to control others doesn’t feel good. Which means means trying to control others is really bad for your point of attraction. The type of control I’m talking about can take many forms. Trying to control others can be about their behavior or perceptions or the decisions they make. Trying to control others can be […]
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5 ways someone might not be “getting over” a breakup
This post is about a Law of Attraction perspective on getting over the breakup of a romantic relationship. To explore this topic, I’ll talk about five ways someone might not be “getting over” a breakup. Before we dive in, let me say this: Even if a breakup isn’t relevant to what’s going on in your […]
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Looking at FOMO through the lens of Law of Attraction
Are you suffering from FOMO? You’ve probably heard of FOMO, but in case you haven’t, it stands for Fear Of Missing Out. FOMO surfaced in a couple recent coaching sessions with clients, which caused me to be curious about looking at FOMO through the lens of Law of Attraction. Let’s start here: FOMO is a […]
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It’s such a seemingly simple piece of guidance
It’s such a seemingly simple piece of guidance: Reach for the best-feeling thought you have access to. This is always the best piece of advice. It’s the LoA recommendation that applies 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Reach for the best-feeling thought you have access to. If you’ve just […]
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What is the vibration you offer about what you want?
Someone wants a promotion at work. Someone wants to lose ten pounds. Someone wants better communication with her spouse. Someone wants her children to thrive at school. Someone wants a new car. Someone wants to have more community in her life. Do you know what all these wants have in common? Each person, regardless of […]
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Are you asking questions for which you don’t have answers?
How often do you have a new desire for something you want to manifest and feel really excited…only to shift rather quickly to thinking about how you are going to get what you want and feel a whole let less excited? Does that sound familiar? Instead of excitement and positive expectation about your new desire, […]
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The problem doesn’t feel good. The solution does.
Are you wallowing in the problem? I imagine most of us want to say, No of course not. I wouldn’t do that. I don’t wallow in the problem. And yet, many of us do just that. Here’s why wallowing in the problem is a problem. When you wallow in the problem you are vibrating at […]
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