I used to consider myself a master problem solver
Before my obsession with all things Law of Attraction, I would have proudly said I could spot a problem from a mile away. I would have said that problem-solving was one of my talents, something I was really good at. I was always on the lookout for problems and I thought this was a good […]
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You are the crossroads—right now—of optimism or pessimism.
What if I were to say that you are always at the crossroads; you are always at a point at which a crucial decision is going to be made, and that crucial decision will have far-reaching consequences. Wow, that sounds pretty important, doesn’t it? A couple years into my LoA journey, I started really embracing […]
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Don’t be a reliable narrator
I love my Law of Attraction practice. I love the shifts in my perception. I love finding alignment and re-finding it when I pop out. I love understanding an LoA concept in a new way, a deeper way that then leads to actually applying it in my real life—living it. Quite simply: I love the […]
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What momentum has to do with your point of attraction
I want to talk about momentum as it relates to Law of Attraction. Specially, I want to talk about negative momentum and what happens when you’ve got that going on in your life. By negative momentum I mean you’re feeling negative emotion and you’re stringing together hours and days of it. Perhaps even weeks or […]
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Are your thoughts contradicting what you want?
Are you ever confused about what you want or how to get what you want? Do you ever feel like you’re taking a step or two toward what you want only to then take a step back—and not seem to be getting where you want to go? Do you ever feel stuck? Have you experienced […]
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Do you know the only control Law of Attraction wants you to have?
Recently several clients have come to coaching sessions with some version of control on their minds. Controlling others. Controlling circumstances. Controlling outcomes. Now, they don’t always use the word “control” when describing what’s going on. Perhaps they say: I really want what’s best for him. And so he should do x, y, or z. It’s […]
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Your power is in the present moment—not the past
What role is the past playing in your life? By past, I mean your childhood and last month. I mean decades ago and yesterday. I mean all the relationships of the past and the jobs and places you’ve lived and opportunities you had and did not have. By the past I mean all the unfoldings […]
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Being controlling simply doesn’t feel good
The other day a client shared how frustrated she is that her spouse won’t take her advice about how to handle a situation at work. Her spouse keeps talking about and worrying about the situation, and my client keeps offering advice and directives, usually preceded by, Here’s what you should do… And yet the situation […]
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Do you have a hard time delegating?
Let’s start with this juicy question: Are you wearing struggle like a badge of honor? Oh my goodness! The pre-LoA version of me absolutely wore struggle like a badge of honor. Efforting and striving were my MO. I had struggle and success all mixed together, as if you couldn’t have the success without the struggle. […]
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What to do instead of criticizing yourself
Years ago I heard a quote from Louise Hay that stopped me in my tracks—her words sparked one of those lightbulb moments. Here’s what Louise said: “You’ve been criticizing yourself forever and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” —Louise Hay Does that land for you, too? Have you been criticizing […]
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Do these four red flags of confusion sound familiar?
Think about the past few days. Have you said I’m confused about something? I’m confused about retiring early. I’m confused about whether to stay in my relationship. Do you often say or think, I don’t know? I don’t know if I want to change jobs. I don’t know whether to start my own business. Saying […]
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Confusion is a poor point of attraction and feels lousy
Let’s start with this: Confusion is an emotion that serves no purpose. What you attract from the vibration of confusion is not what you want. And when you allow confusion to linger, it creates momentum. A confused, unclear-in-your-mind, I-can’t-decide, I-don’t-know emotional state takes on a life of its own. I’ll put it another way: When […]
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Here’s what shows up when you feel irritation
The other day a client was telling me about a recent week she’d had that was, in her words, “beyond exasperating.” It had been one of those Murphy’s Law kind of weeks: “Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.” And, of course, through this outlook and energy, my client was living the Law of […]
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Here’s how you can bypass needing to believe circumstances are neutral
One of the core tenets of Law of Attraction is this: Circumstances are neutral. Circumstances are not good or bad, they are neutral. It is your thoughts about a circumstance that cause your feelings, whether that be positive emotion or negative emotion. For instance, not getting the raise is the neutral circumstance. Your thought about […]
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Are you compromising your own alignment?
Too often we compromise the vibration we are offering because we are worried about others or wanting something different for them. You worry about the toll stress at work is taking on your husband. You want things to be better for your sister and get upset when she doesn’t follow your advice about how to […]
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