Blog Archive: What-is & Wanted vs. Unwanted
Love Your Life #032: Are you picking up the wrong end of the stick?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about whether you’ve been picking up the wrong end of the stick. A lot of us are—and don’t even realize it! This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… A classic Law of Attraction framework about what is wanted […]
Continued... Love Your Life #028: Attention to what-is creates more of what is
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why it’s a bad idea to focus on facts and face reality because attention to what-is only creates more of what is. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How to attract something different or something more […]
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Spotlight on 4 steps to get back in alignment
I’ve popped out of alignment a couple times recently—in a big way. Both “incidents” are a distant memory now, but at the time they felt big and hairy. On top of feeling all kinds of gunky emotions—frustration, hurt, irritation, disappointment—I was also freaking out because I knew I was out of alignment. Which means my […]
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Are you pre-paving what you desire or what you dread?
We all know someone who never fails to paint a picture of what could go wrong. Who always anticipates the potential for problems and disappointment. Maybe YOU are that person. Do you act as if worrying and thinking about what could go wrong is a “cushion” for the bad event, the unwanted test result, the […]
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My journey from self-help to Law of Attraction
My sister and I were recently sitting in the car waiting for our mother to finish with an appointment. One topic of conversation lead to the next until we landed on this: We are both weary of self-help. Tired of always trying to improve and fix. Three steps to this and 8 weeks to that. […]
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Are you postponing how you want to feel until you get what you want?
So here’s the thing: There’s always a period of time—days, weeks, months or even years—before you arrive at your desired destination. Before the goal is achieved or the shiny penny acquired. In other words, there’s a journey and process to the evolution of your desire. Sometimes—often even— it’s a gradual process. So the only question […]
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Embrace contrast as your friend, not your enemy
Every instance of life is presenting you with contrast. When you’re commuting to work… When you’re in a meeting with your boss… When you’re picking the kids up from school… When you’re talking to your spouse about finances When you’re exhausted at the end of the day… At any given moment, contrast—which is the variety […]
Continued... Love Your Life #016: 4 things to do when you pop out of alignment
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the 4 steps I recently used when I popped out of alignment and wanted to pop back in. Here’s my question to you: Do you have a process for getting back into alignment after something has happened that you don’t […]
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Love Your Life #014: Why I’m done with self-help (and talking about problems)
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why I’m done with self-help—and finished with focusing on problems. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How hundreds of self-help books caused me to change careers and how I then shifted from self-improvement to Law of […]
Continued... Love Your Life #011: Why contrast is useful and what it’s telling you right now
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about contrast—what it is, why it’s useful, and how to avoid getting stuck in it. “You never know more clearly what it is that you do want than when you are living what you do not want.” —Abraham Are you using […]
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