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Do you know the only control Law of Attraction wants you to have?

Recently several clients have come to coaching sessions with some version of control on their minds. Controlling others. Controlling circumstances. Controlling outcomes. Now, they don’t always use the word “control” when describing what’s going on. Perhaps they say: I really want what’s best for him. And so he should do x, y, or z. It’s […]

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Being controlling simply doesn’t feel good

The other day a client shared how frustrated she is that her spouse won’t take her advice about how to handle a situation at work. Her spouse keeps talking about and worrying about the situation, and my client keeps offering advice and directives, usually preceded by, Here’s what you should do… And yet the situation […]

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Do you have a hard time delegating?

Let’s start with this juicy question: Are you wearing struggle like a badge of honor? Oh my goodness! The pre-LoA version of me absolutely wore struggle like a badge of honor. Efforting and striving were my MO. I had struggle and success all mixed together, as if you couldn’t have the success without the struggle. […]

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