5 ways to be more selfish
Imagine we’re sitting together over a cup of coffee or tea, and I look you in the eye, and say, You’re so selfish. How do you feel? Have I insulted you? Or complimented you? Being thought of as selfish is a bad thing, right? I mean, who wants to be called selfish? It’s not exactly […]
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Are you keeping what you don’t want?
Are you resisting what you want? Are you resisting your own desire? Most of us want to answer, No, of course not! Why would I go against the very thing I want? Why would I do anything to prevent what I want from happening? But many of us are doing just that. We are inadvertently […]
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I love doing Law of Attraction experiments
I love testing out the premise that my thoughts do, indeed, create my reality. I’m a believer, for sure. It really didn’t take any convincing when about a year ago I became obsessed with Law of Attraction. At the same time, I also like proving it. I like being the scientist and studying my own […]
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Confusion is a poor point of attraction and feels lousy
Let’s start with this: Confusion is an emotion that serves no purpose. What you attract from the vibration of confusion is not what you want. And when you allow confusion to linger, it creates momentum. A confused, unclear-in-your-mind, I-can’t-decide, I-don’t-know emotional state takes on a life of its own. I’ll put it another way: When […]
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“Act as if” is not really the right phrase
Have you heard the expression “act as if”? You want the promotion, so act as if you are the perfect candidate for it. You want success, so act as if you are already successful. You want more ease in your life, so act is if you already have it. Acting as if is a great […]
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Are you efforting your way through life?
Are you enjoying your long To Do list and efforting your way through life? Are you enjoying taking massive action and making incremental progress? Are you enjoying the results you get when you take action from a frustrated, overwhelmed place? Many of us are taking massive action in an attempt to compensate for the fact […]
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The way you feel is the main event
“The main event has never been the manifestation; the main event has always been the way you feel moment by moment, because that’s what life is.” —Abraham How have you been feeling, moment by moment? Think about how you’ve been feeling, moment by moment—today, this month, this year. How have you been feeling, moment by […]
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My journey from self-help to Law of Attraction
My sister and I were recently sitting in the car waiting for our mother to finish with an appointment. One topic of conversation lead to the next until we landed on this: We are both weary of self-help. Tired of always trying to improve and fix. Three steps to this and 8 weeks to that. […]
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Here’s what shows up when you feel irritation
The other day a client was telling me about a recent week she’d had that was, in her words, “beyond exasperating.” It had been one of those Murphy’s Law kind of weeks: “Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.” And, of course, through this outlook and energy, my client was living the Law of […]
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10 powerful Law of Attraction quotes to remind you who you want to be
I think we love inspirational quotes because they remind us of who we want to be—and who we really are. They shine a light on what really matters and cut through the noise of what doesn’t. Here are 10 sensational Law of Attraction quotes to help you take your Law of Attraction practice up a […]
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Let the Universe do the heavy lifting of manifesting
The Universe will the do the heavy lifting of manifesting for you. You don’t need to make things happen or try really hard and force what you want to manifest. That’s not your job. Always keep in mind that what you desire has been vibrationally created. That’s the essence of Step 2 of manifesting. What […]
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Here’s how you can bypass needing to believe circumstances are neutral
One of the core tenets of Law of Attraction is this: Circumstances are neutral. Circumstances are not good or bad, they are neutral. It is your thoughts about a circumstance that cause your feelings, whether that be positive emotion or negative emotion. For instance, not getting the raise is the neutral circumstance. Your thought about […]
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Looking for the wrong kind of evidence is bad for manifesting
It’s amazing how often we look for evidence of the very thing we don’t want. You say… My boss is such a micromanager. And then you look for all the ways your boss micromanages. My husband is not a very good listener and constantly interrupts. And then you are on high alert for this behavior. […]
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How to remember to practice what you know about Law of Attraction
Awhile back I created a bonus episode of Love Your Life called Five things on my Law of Attraction checklist. Here are the five things: Is feeling good your #1 priority? Are you telling a good-feeling story? When you feel negative emotion, do you reach for better-feeling thoughts? Are you appreciating? Are you enjoying the […]
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Start with the premise that alignment is always available
What’s guiding me when it comes to alignment these days is two-fold. First, say yes to what’s in alignment, and say no to what’s not. Sounds pretty simple, right? I think of this guideline as being a gatekeeper of sorts when it comes to alignment. If from the get-go I make decisions through the lens […]
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