Is resistance in the way of manifesting?
Resistance gets in the way of manifesting. And being in a state of resistance is just not a fun way to live. “Your entire work is about lowering your resistance.” —Abraham Choosing the path of least resistance applies to everything in your life. The job change you want to make, that crucial conversation you’ve been […]
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It’s time to tell a better story
“Everything that you or anyone else is living, everything that is being lived by anyone, is in response to the story they are telling. Period! That’s all!” —Abraham I want to talk about telling a better story—in three specific ways. A better story about your past, a better story about your present, and a better […]
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Problems are easy to find. And we all have them.
The contrast of life is always clarifying what we want and don’t want, what we like and don’t like. Maybe your problem is your husband doesn’t help out around the house, your weight is creeping up on the scale, your mother-in-law drives you nuts, or your finances are a mess. Or maybe your problem is […]
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You do not need others to be different to feel good
What does it mean when you encounter low-vibe, negative people? And how should you deal with them? This could be your boss or a colleague at work. Perhaps it’s your negative spouse or low-vibe mother-in-law. Maybe it’s a good friend or your next door neighbor. Or maybe you are encountering low-vibes and negativity from the […]
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Are you thinking unhappy thoughts about the past?
At any given time, you could be focused on your present, your past, or your future. And with each, you could be focused positively or negatively. So you could be thinking about your present, about what-is, and could be focused on all that’s wrong and not working and not the way you want it to […]
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How to turn away from what is unwanted
I can just about guarantee you have already done the Process of Pivoting—and you probably didn’t even know it. But I doubt very much you called it The Process of Pivoting. My hope is you embrace the Process of Pivoting and do it more intentionally and regularly. Which means over time, you’ll also do it […]
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Here are four things negative emotion is telling you
Many of us are feeling negative emotion, but misunderstanding what it’s telling us. So let’s start there. Here are four things negative emotion is telling you. 1. When you experience negative emotion, it means you are thinking about what you don’t want or don’t like. “Every negative emotion, no matter how strong or mild it […]
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How to know if you’re a match to abundance or scarcity
Are you picking up the wrong end of the stick? Hmmm…you might be wondering what stick I’m talking about. Abraham says, “Every subject is really two subjects: There is that which you desire, and the lack of it. Often—even when you believe you are thinking about something that you desire—you are actually thinking about the […]
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You will never hear me say, “You need to face reality”
Facing reality is a really, really bad idea unless you want to create more of what-is. “Many around you want to point out “reality” to you. They say, ‘Face the facts. Look at what-is.’ And we say to you, if you are able to see only what-is—then by the Law of Attraction, you will create […]
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Spotlight on 4 steps to get back in alignment
I’ve popped out of alignment a couple times recently—in a big way. Both “incidents” are a distant memory now, but at the time they felt big and hairy. On top of feeling all kinds of gunky emotions—frustration, hurt, irritation, disappointment—I was also freaking out because I knew I was out of alignment. Which means my […]
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Are you pre-paving what you desire or what you dread?
We all know someone who never fails to paint a picture of what could go wrong. Who always anticipates the potential for problems and disappointment. Maybe YOU are that person. Do you act as if worrying and thinking about what could go wrong is a “cushion” for the bad event, the unwanted test result, the […]
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Are you postponing how you want to feel until you get what you want?
So here’s the thing: There’s always a period of time—days, weeks, months or even years—before you arrive at your desired destination. Before the goal is achieved or the shiny penny acquired. In other words, there’s a journey and process to the evolution of your desire. Sometimes—often even— it’s a gradual process. So the only question […]
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Embrace contrast as your friend, not your enemy
Every instance of life is presenting you with contrast. When you’re commuting to work… When you’re in a meeting with your boss… When you’re picking the kids up from school… When you’re talking to your spouse about finances When you’re exhausted at the end of the day… At any given moment, contrast—which is the variety […]
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Here’s what happens when you complain and criticize
Many of us are on autopilot when it comes to behaviors and mindsets that lower our point of attraction. We complain and criticize. We find fault with others and judge all day long. And we don’t even realize we’re doing it. It’s just the backdrop of our daily lives. You blame your spouse for making […]
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It’s a great big beautiful world, but…
It’s a great big beautiful world out there. Full of amazing wonder. And we’re living in an incredible age. Full of possibility. And, of course, we’re also living in a world filled with things that vex us. That are not the way we want them to be. Or think they should be. World tolerations There […]
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