It is really circumstances making you feel bad?
Let’s begin with a little Law of Attraction 101: Circumstances are neutral. All of them. While you might be tempted to divide circumstances into columns of good and bad, they are all neutral. But circumstances don’t stay neutral for most of us. And that’s because we layer on meaning. We think thoughts about X, Y, […]
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Are you appreciating your past and your future?
Appreciation is a super emotion for attracting and manifesting what you want. But have you thought about appreciation as it relates to your past and to your future? In other words: Are you appreciating your past? Are you appreciating your future? For many of us, the answer is no. Instead, we regret our past and we […]
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11 ways to get in receiving mode
Step 3 of manifesting is Receive. Meaning you have to be in receiving mode if you want to actually bring your desired manifestation into your physical reality. Step 3 is, by far, the step for which most of my clients seek coaching. Many have mastered Steps 1 and 2: Ask and Believe, but Step 3…not […]
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You don’t have to focus on every “fact” of your life
Do you spend a lot of time thinking and talking about what-is? Is your attention on what-is in relation to your finances or health? Are you focused on what-is when it comes to your job or relationships? It’s tempting to give weight to what-is by thinking about it and talking about it. You might even […]
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If you’re a magnet, what are you attracting?
One of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction is this: “The Law of Attraction is most understood when you see yourself as a magnet getting more and more of the way you feel.” —Abraham I love the simplicity of this concept. I’m a magnet, attracting more of the way I feel. You […]
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Are you stuck in regret?
Are you stuck in regret? Do you keep reactivating something from your past that causes you to feel gunky—a sense of loss, disappointment, or dissatisfaction about something from your past? Perhaps you have regret about a decision you made—that you now wish you’d decided differently. Maybe you regret something you did or didn’t do. Maybe […]
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If good things happen I can be happy
There was a time in my life I wouldn’t even have understood the question: Are you only happy when circumstances are right? Well, obviously. If good things happen—things I like—I can be happy. But if bad things happen—things I don’t like—I will be unhappy. Get the raise, book the vacation, lose five pounds, I feel […]
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Is resistance in the way of manifesting?
Resistance gets in the way of manifesting. And being in a state of resistance is just not a fun way to live. “Your entire work is about lowering your resistance.” —Abraham Choosing the path of least resistance applies to everything in your life. The job change you want to make, that crucial conversation you’ve been […]
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It’s time to tell a better story
“Everything that you or anyone else is living, everything that is being lived by anyone, is in response to the story they are telling. Period! That’s all!” —Abraham I want to talk about telling a better story—in three specific ways. A better story about your past, a better story about your present, and a better […]
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Problems are easy to find. And we all have them.
The contrast of life is always clarifying what we want and don’t want, what we like and don’t like. Maybe your problem is your husband doesn’t help out around the house, your weight is creeping up on the scale, your mother-in-law drives you nuts, or your finances are a mess. Or maybe your problem is […]
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You do not need others to be different to feel good
What does it mean when you encounter low-vibe, negative people? And how should you deal with them? This could be your boss or a colleague at work. Perhaps it’s your negative spouse or low-vibe mother-in-law. Maybe it’s a good friend or your next door neighbor. Or maybe you are encountering low-vibes and negativity from the […]
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Are you thinking unhappy thoughts about the past?
At any given time, you could be focused on your present, your past, or your future. And with each, you could be focused positively or negatively. So you could be thinking about your present, about what-is, and could be focused on all that’s wrong and not working and not the way you want it to […]
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How to turn away from what is unwanted
I can just about guarantee you have already done the Process of Pivoting—and you probably didn’t even know it. But I doubt very much you called it The Process of Pivoting. My hope is you embrace the Process of Pivoting and do it more intentionally and regularly. Which means over time, you’ll also do it […]
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Here are four things negative emotion is telling you
Many of us are feeling negative emotion, but misunderstanding what it’s telling us. So let’s start there. Here are four things negative emotion is telling you. 1. When you experience negative emotion, it means you are thinking about what you don’t want or don’t like. “Every negative emotion, no matter how strong or mild it […]
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How to know if you’re a match to abundance or scarcity
Are you picking up the wrong end of the stick? Hmmm…you might be wondering what stick I’m talking about. Abraham says, “Every subject is really two subjects: There is that which you desire, and the lack of it. Often—even when you believe you are thinking about something that you desire—you are actually thinking about the […]
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