Upstream vs. Downstream: How are you living?
One of my very favorite LoA concepts is upstream vs. downstream. It makes so much sense and it’s easy to apply in real life. Now, I’d never even heard of upstream vs. downstream before my obsession with all things Law of Attraction. But the minute I learned about this concept, I knew I had a […]
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4 ways hard work is not the path to Well-Being
How many of us think hard work is the path to all the things we want in life? The abundance, the lifestyle, the achievement of goals. Many of us were raised to believe hard work is how you get what you want in life. How you’re able to accomplish and achieve. Many of us believe […]
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Are you going with the flow?
I have to admit: Before my obsession with Law of Attraction, I had never really given any thought to what the Universe was flowing to me. I was too busy making To Do lists, setting goals, and efforting my way to try to get what I wanted. The thought of going with the flow probably […]
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Is it time to stop setting goals?
I have a lot of experience setting goals—personal goals, professional goals… and I also have a long history of making plans—plans for tomorrow, plans for the weekend…one-year plans, five-year plans. In fact, a few years ago I created a course called What Matters Most 365: Life By Design to help you design your life and […]
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Are you turning yourself inside out for approval?
We seek approval in so many ways, about so many things. What we wear and what we believe. What we eat and say. The choices we make and how we live our lives. We care what our friends and colleagues think about us. We care what our spouse and kids think about us. Often we […]
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Are you struggling to make a decision?
Do you struggle when it comes to making decisions? I used to. I could make lists of pros and cons for just about anything. I could see both sides of most options. I made exhaustive lists of features and benefits so I could compare one option against another. In fact, I once thought I had […]
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“You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done”
Have you been living as if there’s a point at which you’ll get it all done? If so, this is your wake-up call. I clearly remember the first time I heard this from Abraham: “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done.” Oh my! I had tears in my eyes when I […]
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Are you talking yourself out of what you want?
When you want to achieve a goal or acquire a shiny penny—but don’t know how—you have three options. They’re what I call the full stop, forced action, or flow. Option 1: Full stop The full stop goes something like this. My clients often tell me what they want… I want to start a business or […]
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I love money, but anything tax-related…
Recently I needed to pull together all my financial paperwork for an upcoming meeting with my accountant. We’re talking spreadsheets and receipts and such. Now I love money, but anything tax-related doesn’t really make me want to jump for joy. Nonetheless, I needed to get this paperwork together. Dragging my feet In the past, this […]
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You need to get rid of half of what’s on your plate
Are your To Do list and calendar filled with tasks and commitments and obligations that you feel low energy about? Stuff weighing you down and draining your energy. Imagine you’re looking at your To Do list and your appointment calendar right now. What do you feel? What emotions come up for you? Perhaps friction, dread, […]
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How to create a vision portfolio (and the life you crave)
I created a high-vibe, Law of Attraction-inspired vision portfolio that’s become an integral part of my everyday life. I look at it when I’m having my morning coffee and have taken it with me to cafes and even when I travel. I wouldn’t be without my vision portfolio—and it’s helping me manifest a life I […]
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Dear Abby: Why asking experts is a problem
I think tapping into your own intuition, your own inner knowing, is way better than getting advice from a quote-unquote expert. Dear Abby might have knowledge, but not your inner knowing. Your Inner Being will always rise above the expert. I’m using “Dear Abby” as a catchall…this includes looking to experts for your answers, living by […]
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In the beginning my intuition was clunky like dial-up
“The only real valuable thing is intuition”. —Albert Einstein I admit—I had no firsthand experience of this thing called intuition until a few months ago. That’s when I first began writing letters to my intuition when I was stuck, had a problem, or needed advice. It was a one-off letter here or there. Very random. […]
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All that hustle and hard work was exhausting
“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you. A joy.” Rumi To be honest, not that long ago I didn’t even know what that quote meant. Not really. Hustle and hard work Because in the past I was all about hustle and hard work. And that worked to some […]
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Get everything you want—the hard way or the easy way
I think you can have everything you want. And there are two ways to get it. One is the hard way and one is the easy way. The hard way The hard way is to effort your way there. Struggle, strive, lots of shoulds. Long To Do lists and project plans. Lots of doing things […]
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