• Are you compromising your own alignment?

    Too often we compromise the vibration we are offering because we are worried about others or wanting something different for them. You worry about the toll stress at work is taking on your husband. You want things to be better for your sister and get upset when she doesn’t follow your advice about how to […]

  • Do you need to mind your own business?

    You want certain things for those you love, your kids and spouse, your friends and family. You want them to have certain experiences in life and be spared from others. You want them to have all good things. You don’t want them to be sad or frustrated, angry or fearful. You want them to be […]

  • Love Your Life #070: It’s time to stop trying to think and feel for others

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why you need to stop trying to think and feel for others. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. And I’ll warn you right now: This episode is about minding your own business, which you may not like. This episode […]

  • Dear Abby: Why asking experts is a problem

    I think tapping into your own intuition, your own inner knowing, is way better than getting advice from a quote-unquote expert. Dear Abby might have knowledge, but not your inner knowing. Your Inner Being will always rise above the expert. I’m using “Dear Abby” as a catchall…this includes looking to experts for your answers, living by […]

  • Love Your Life #009: Dear Intuition is way better than Dear Abby

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about intuition. This is one of my new favorite topics—as I’ve gone from thinking I didn’t have intuition to writing a daily letter to my intuition. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. So here’s my question: Do you have an […]

  • Two months in: The truth about writing to my intuition

    I’ve been writing a daily letter to my intuition since mid-November. So I’m 60+ letters in. And boy have I been surprised. In the past, I would’ve said I didn’t even have intuition. When people talked about this mysterious, wise something-or-other directing them, I really had no idea what they were talking about. If pressed, […]

  • Be your own guru: How to give yourself wise advice

    Where’s the best place to go for some wise advice? The self-help section at Barnes & Noble? A call to your best girlfriend? Ask your spouse? Find out what The Expert says and do that? Nope, none of those. The very best, wisest advice you’ll ever get will come from…you. How do I know this? […]

  • Tough love: It’s time to stop indulging in confusion

    You know how sometimes you hear something that changes everything? This happened to me the other day while listening to a podcast at the gym. Here’s what I heard: Don’t indulge in confusion. I nearly flew off the back of the treadmill. I’m pretty sure I shouted, You’ve got that right! because several people nearby […]

  • What makes you think you know what’s best for others?

    I don’t know what’s best for you. Or anyone else for that matter. And you don’t know what’s best for me. Or anyone else for that matter. Since those statements hold true for you, me, and everyone, this stands out: There’s a whole lot of advice giving going on. Usually unsolicited. Often disempowering. Here’s what […]

  • “Yeah, but” will only get you so far

    See if this sounds familiar. You’re confiding in a friend about a problem or dilemma you’re facing. Maybe you’re… Deciding whether to leave a soul-deadening job Struggling to make movement part of your daily life Exhausted from saying “yes” all the time Putting off a much-needed crucial conversation with a colleague Afraid to get back […]