• Being controlling simply doesn’t feel good

    The other day a client shared how frustrated she is that her spouse won’t take her advice about how to handle a situation at work. Her spouse keeps talking about and worrying about the situation, and my client keeps offering advice and directives, usually preceded by, Here’s what you should do… And yet the situation […]

  • Love Your Life #271: This is what I’ve found works for me

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why you feel friction when someone doesn’t take your advice Why control doesn’t feel good What many of us say we’re doing rather […]

  • Are you compromising your own alignment?

    Too often we compromise the vibration we are offering because we are worried about others or wanting something different for them. You worry about the toll stress at work is taking on your husband. You want things to be better for your sister and get upset when she doesn’t follow your advice about how to […]

  • Do you need to mind your own business?

    You want certain things for those you love, your kids and spouse, your friends and family. You want them to have certain experiences in life and be spared from others. You want them to have all good things. You don’t want them to be sad or frustrated, angry or fearful. You want them to be […]

  • Love Your Life #070: It’s time to stop trying to think and feel for others

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why you need to stop trying to think and feel for others. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. And I’ll warn you right now: This episode is about minding your own business, which you may not like. This episode […]

  • Dear Abby: Why asking experts is a problem

    I think tapping into your own intuition, your own inner knowing, is way better than getting advice from a quote-unquote expert. Dear Abby might have knowledge, but not your inner knowing. Your Inner Being will always rise above the expert. I’m using “Dear Abby” as a catchall…this includes looking to experts for your answers, living by […]

  • Love Your Life #009: Dear Intuition is way better than Dear Abby

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about intuition. This is one of my new favorite topics—as I’ve gone from thinking I didn’t have intuition to writing a daily letter to my intuition. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. So here’s my question: Do you have an […]

  • Two months in: The truth about writing to my intuition

    I’ve been writing a daily letter to my intuition since mid-November. So I’m 60+ letters in. And boy have I been surprised. In the past, I would’ve said I didn’t even have intuition. When people talked about this mysterious, wise something-or-other directing them, I really had no idea what they were talking about. If pressed, […]

  • Be your own guru: How to give yourself wise advice

    Where’s the best place to go for some wise advice? The self-help section at Barnes & Noble? A call to your best girlfriend? Ask your spouse? Find out what The Expert says and do that? Nope, none of those. The very best, wisest advice you’ll ever get will come from…you. How do I know this? […]

  • Tough love: It’s time to stop indulging in confusion

    You know how sometimes you hear something that changes everything? This happened to me the other day while listening to a podcast at the gym. Here’s what I heard: Don’t indulge in confusion. I nearly flew off the back of the treadmill. I’m pretty sure I shouted, You’ve got that right! because several people nearby […]