Start, Stop & Change: advice

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about why you need to stop trying to think and feel for others.

And I’ll warn you right now: This episode is about minding your own business, which you may not like.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • Why wanting things to be a certain way for others is problematic
  • What happens when you think you know best and dish out unsolicited advice
  • Why Abraham says there’s only one way of helping others
  • The problem with telling your depressed friend to cheer up and look on the bright side
  • The reason advice giving, even when it’s solicited, has a downside
  • Why my clients are a whole lot happier and life gets a whole lot easier when they start minding their own business


“You cannot create in the experience of another because you cannot think their thoughts.” —Abraham

“We want you to care so much about your own balancing of energy, so much so that we want you to leave everyone else out of the equation. And that’s one of the reasons that we think it is really a good idea to get your nose out of everyone else’s business. And you put your nose in your business and your only business is your alignment of energy.” —Abraham

“If you want to be of greatest value to others, see them as you know they want to be. That is the influence that you want to offer.” —Abraham

“You cannot look at that which you do not want and not join and perpetuate that vibration. Take your attention from that which is not in harmony with who you are, and in taking your attention from it, your “now vibration” will adjust to who you really are, and then you can uplift others.” —Abraham

“There’s only one way of helping others. You have to feel good yourself and see others as they want to be.” —Abraham

“All of you would live happily ever after…if you would just mind your own business.” —Abraham

“The secret of the Universe really is minding your own business. What we mean by that is: Don’t get so involved in the desires or beliefs of others that you cause confusion or chatter in your own vibration and compromise your own alignment.” —Abraham

“It is not your role to make others happy; it is your role to keep yourself in balance. When you pay attention to how you feel and practice self-empowering thoughts that align with who-you-really-are, you will offer an example of thriving that will be of tremendous value to those who have the benefit of observing you. You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive or sick enough to help sick people get well. You only ever uplift from your position of strength and clarity and alignment.” —Abraham

“The great gift that you could ever give another is the gift of your expectation of their success.” —Abraham


The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

The Secret

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