Gunk of Low-Energy Living: control

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • Why you feel friction when someone doesn’t take your advice
  • Why control doesn’t feel good
  • What many of us say we’re doing rather than characterize our behavior as controlling
  • Why thinking you know what’s best for someone else is low vibe
  • How you could—without meaning to—be robbing someone of their own agency
  • What guidance (versus control) looks like


If you guide through anything other than your own example, it crosses over into the category of control. If you say, ‘This is what I’ve found that works for me, try it if you like.’ That’s guidance. If you say, ‘This is what I’ve found works for me, and if you don’t follow it, you’re in trouble,’ that’s control.” —Abraham


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