• Love Your Life #271: This is what I’ve found works for me

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why you feel friction when someone doesn’t take your advice Why control doesn’t feel good What many of us say we’re doing rather […]

  • Love Your Life 265: Here’s how to really leverage Law of Attraction

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why being aware of how you feel is essential to manifesting—and what to do when you realize you’re feeling bad. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The formula you probably […]

  • Are you asking questions for which you don’t have answers?

    How often do you have a new desire for something you want to manifest and feel really excited…only to shift rather quickly to thinking about how you are going to get what you want and feel a whole let less excited? Does that sound familiar? Instead of excitement and positive expectation about your new desire, […]

  • Are you lining up with the decisions you make?

    Here’s what I’ve noticed: Many of us create friction in our vibration when it comes to making decisions. This commonly happens in a couple ways. Listen and see if you can identify with one or both. The first way you might be creating friction in your vibration around decision-making stems from the belief that there […]

  • I used to think the answer was to get stuff done

    I want to take you back a few years and tell you what I used to think about overwhelm. I thought overwhelm was because there was too much on my To Do list or because I had too much going on in my life. In other words, when there’s lots to get done or lots […]

  • Are you talking yourself out of what you want?

    When you want to achieve a goal or acquire a shiny penny—but don’t know how—you have three options. They’re what I call the full stop, forced action, or flow. Option 1: Full stop The full stop goes something like this. My clients often tell me what they want… I want to start a business or […]

  • My trip to the mall ends in irritation and disappointment

    Not long ago Hans and I were at the mall on a Saturday to have lunch. I’d been looking forward to the outing all week. Well, somehow we got our signals crossed. Hans was thinking lunch and no shopping. And I was thinking lunch and lots of shopping. I’m sure you know where this is […]

  • It’s a great big beautiful world, but…

    It’s a great big beautiful world out there. Full of amazing wonder. And we’re living in an incredible age. Full of possibility. And, of course, we’re also living in a world filled with things that vex us. That are not the way we want them to be. Or think they should be. World tolerations There […]

  • Mind your own business and have more energy

    If your spouse, children, parents, boss, coworkers, neighbors, and friends would just do what you want, you’d be a whole lot happier. Right? Imagine you could wave a magic wand and get everyone in line with your wants, needs, and preferences. It would immediately and automatically eliminate a significant amount of friction, frustration, and energy […]

  • Bad behavior: When you get in your own way

    Tolerations are things you’re reluctantly putting up with—and can include your own behavior. While there are 8 types of tolerations, Behavior tolerations can be particularly exasperating because it’s you you’re putting up with. For example, do you work too many hours and over promise at work? Do a lot of mindless eating and get too […]