Be willing to be diligent about your choice of thought
Sometimes a client will ask, Why am I still having to make an effort to choose my thoughts and redirect my attention? Why is this still work for me? The assumption my client is making is she will arrive at a time when being diligent about her thoughts is no longer necessary. That is a […]
I complain way less than I used to
I suppose most of us complain. We express dissatisfaction or annoyance with something—complain either with words spoken aloud or with the thoughts in our heads. Do you complain? I do. Since my obsession with all things Law of Attraction, I now realize complaining is focusing on unwanted, which is very bad for manifesting what is […]
Why paying attention to everything is bad for manifesting
We are all observers because an observer is simply someone who watches or notices something. But are you what I refer to as “merely” an observer? As in only an observer. As in solely an observer. Because if you are merely an observer most or all of the time, you are very likely lowering your […]
Many of us are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted
Here’s something I’ve noticed: Many of us, without realizing it, are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted. Here’s why that is so important: You cannot focus on unwanted and receive wanted. Which bring me to one of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction: The Stick Analogy. Think of going out […]
Why is the same thing happening over and again?
Recently several clients have come to coaching because they are frustrated or confused or discouraged about repeatedly attracting the same unwanted situation into their lives. This might sound like: Why is the same thing happening over and again? Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing? Whether it is the same unwanted type of […]
#176: Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how to shift your energy when you’ve been attracting the same unwanted thing into your life. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What’s going on when you want something new and different, but don’t understand how […]
This is important: Expectation is a focus with a vibration
Are you expecting what you want? Or are you expecting what you don’t want? Why on earth would you expect what you don’t want? That doesn’t make any sense, does it? And yet…that’s what so many of us do. We expect the very things we don’t want. I want to talk about expectation, why it’s […]
Contrast is helping you clarify what you like and want
What is contrast clarifying for you right now? Do you know? Before you answer, let me back up and ground us in a simple definition of contrast so we have the same understanding. Contrast is simply the variety of life. You are constantly being exposed to contrast. It’s happening all the time. Often when my […]
#158: What is contrast clarifying for you right now?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about a misunderstanding many of us have about contrast—and a more beneficial way to look at this natural and inevitable part of life. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why it’s a mistake to think of contrast […]
Milk every moment for all the pleasure you can get from it
Most of us, myself included, have a big opportunity when it comes to amplifying our vibration when we are at the higher end of the emotional scale. So here’s what happens for some of us. We get to a good-feeling place. We manage our minds and think better feeling thoughts and climb the emotional scale. […]