• 5 ways to be more selfish

    Imagine we’re sitting together over a cup of coffee or tea, and I look you in the eye, and say, You’re so selfish. How do you feel? Have I insulted you? Or complimented you? Being thought of as selfish is a bad thing, right? I mean, who wants to be called selfish? It’s not exactly […]

  • Have you made these decisions about happiness?

    “To change our lives, at some point we have to decide that, rather than suffer anymore, we are going to live in happiness. And the only way we can do that is to make the decision to look for things to appreciate, no matter what. As we begin to focus on the good and the […]

  • Love Your Life #129: Have you decided not to suffer?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about deciding not to suffer, and two decisions you can make to live in happiness. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. Here’s my question: Do you know how to get good things to appear in your life? You’ll soon find out! […]

  • Love Your Life #025: Do you think Law of Attraction is selfish?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about whether Law of Attraction is selfish—and the complete 180 I’ve done. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What happened when I set out to make the case Law of […]

  • Are you living without margin?

    Are you living without margin?

    Living without margin means…  Back-to-back appointments. Errands stacked like dominoes, one after the other. Deadlines with no time to spare. Everything blurred together in an endless, task-driven loop. Getting through this so you can go on to that. No wiggle room. No breathing room. A life with margin means… a ridiculously doable To Do list sensible expectations unclouded by […]

  • The good, bad, and ugly of your mindsets

    You’re familiar with the mindset of the glass being half full or half empty. It’s the exact same glass, but two people can see it very differently. It’s like the quote says: Be careful how you interpret the world: It is like that. This quote perfectly captures mindset at work. Because our interpretations of the […]

  • 3 ways to be luckier by the end of the day

    My dictionary says luck is success or failure brought by chance rather than through your own actions. Yes, there’s that kind of luck. Fate. Kismet. Destiny. But there’s a different kind too. The kind of luck that very much depends on the actions you take. Because when it comes to being lucky, there’s plenty you […]

  • Are you waiting until you’re happy to smile?

    I was out and about in the world today and noticed something striking, something peculiar. Hardly anyone was smiling. Not the people I passed on the sidewalk. Not those driving in their cars. I saw couples sitting together at restaurants with barely a smile between them. I saw clerks in stores and customers at cafes […]

  • Why do we make it so hard?

    Why do we make it so hard? The “it” being anything and everything—our daily endeavors, To Do lists, relationships, jobs…our lives. Do we believe we have to struggle and suffer—that it has to be hard—for it to work? For us to succeed? That if we do it the easy way it means we aren’t trying? […]