You will never hear me say, “You need to face reality”
Facing reality is a really, really bad idea unless you want to create more of what-is. “Many around you want to point out “reality” to you. They say, ‘Face the facts. Look at what-is.’ And we say to you, if you are able to see only what-is—then by the Law of Attraction, you will create […]
Love Your Life #032: Are you picking up the wrong end of the stick?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about whether you’ve been picking up the wrong end of the stick. A lot of us are—and don’t even realize it! This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… A classic Law of Attraction framework about what is wanted […]
Love Your Life #028: Attention to what-is creates more of what is
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why it’s a bad idea to focus on facts and face reality because attention to what-is only creates more of what is. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How to attract something different or something more […]
Spotlight on 4 steps to get back in alignment
I’ve popped out of alignment a couple times recently—in a big way. Both “incidents” are a distant memory now, but at the time they felt big and hairy. On top of feeling all kinds of gunky emotions—frustration, hurt, irritation, disappointment—I was also freaking out because I knew I was out of alignment. Which means my […]
Love Your Life #024: What on earth is a Creative Workshop?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about what a Creative Workshop is—and how you can use it to create your reality. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Two ways to do a Creative Workshop—and which one I like best How to collect data […]
Embrace contrast as your friend, not your enemy
Every instance of life is presenting you with contrast. When you’re commuting to work… When you’re in a meeting with your boss… When you’re picking the kids up from school… When you’re talking to your spouse about finances When you’re exhausted at the end of the day… At any given moment, contrast—which is the variety […]
Love Your Life #015: You are pre-paving your future. Is it full of potholes?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about pre-paving, which is a superpower manifesting skill. Here’s my question to you: Are you pre-paving what you desire or what you dread? Stay tuned—and you’ll soon find out! This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What pre-paving […]
Tale of two stories (Aka: What you focus on is what you get)
A few years ago, Hans and I were between our old house and new digs. Construction delays on our new place meant moving into a hotel. What was originally supposed to be three months turned into six. That’s 173 days. But who’s counting. That’s where these two stories begin: We were 63 days into our […]
What happens when you say “hard” and “difficult” dozens of times?
I had coffee with a new acquaintance and she used the words “hard” and “difficult” at least three dozen times in a 30-minute period. I know because I started counting after the first few. Holding up a mirror Now, before you think I’m mean-spirited, I started counting because I wanted to give her constructive feedback. […]
Your strengths are where it’s easy. What are you waiting for?
I’m not the quickest when it comes to math beyond calculating the tip on a restaurant bill. I have zero talent when it comes to DIY home improvement projects. I’m on the lazy side when it comes to physical labor of pretty much any kind. And I’m definitely not the one you want in charge […]