What-Is & Wanted vs. Unwanted: what-is

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about why it’s a bad idea to focus on facts and face reality because attention to what-is only creates more of what is. To access this episode, join LYL Premium.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • How to attract something different or something more in your life by getting the Law of Attraction to respond to a different vibration with a different result
  • Why a coaching client’s backstory is not helpful and can actually be detrimental
  • How retelling the “facts” of my doctor visit was creating an emotional groove of what I didn’t want
  • The two reasons you might struggle to stay out of what-is
  • How to go from focusing on what-is to giving your attention to what is wanted
  • Why most of us are stuck observing and reacting
  • Telltale signs you are focused on what-is—and may not even realize it


“Many around you want to point out “reality” to you. They say, ‘Face the facts. Look at what-is.’ And we say to you, if you are able to see only what-is—then by the Law of Attraction, you will create only more of what-is….You must be able to put your thoughts beyond what-is in order to attract something different or something more.” —The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham


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