Do you know the only control Law of Attraction wants you to have?
Recently several clients have come to coaching sessions with some version of control on their minds. Controlling others. Controlling circumstances. Controlling outcomes. Now, they don’t always use the word “control” when describing what’s going on. Perhaps they say: I really want what’s best for him. And so he should do x, y, or z. It’s […]
Love Your Life #299: Are you confused about what’s yours to control?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the only control that Law of Attraction is interested in you having. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How you might be controlling without realizing it What it means when your alignment is dependent on persuading […]
Love Your Life #284: To learn how to think is to learn how to live
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the power of thought and why managing your mind is better than trying to control what’s going on outside. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What it means that […]
Being controlling simply doesn’t feel good
The other day a client shared how frustrated she is that her spouse won’t take her advice about how to handle a situation at work. Her spouse keeps talking about and worrying about the situation, and my client keeps offering advice and directives, usually preceded by, Here’s what you should do… And yet the situation […]
Love Your Life #271: This is what I’ve found works for me
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why you feel friction when someone doesn’t take your advice Why control doesn’t feel good What many of us say we’re doing rather […]
Love Your Life #239: Are you trying to steer the river?
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how everything you want is downstream, but you have to let go of the oars and stop trying to steer the river. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Five forms of resistance I commonly see […]
Shift from controlling others to controlling the vibration you offer
Recently I’ve noticed a specific kind of friction in the vibration of a few of my clients. The friction is coming from a belief that someone in their lives needs to do things differently. Here’s an example: One client thinks co-creating with her spouse would be so much easier if he would shift away from […]
Love Your Life #213: Attempting to control others attracts more to be controlled
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about what happens when you try to create your reality by controlling others rather than controlling your own vibration. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The misguided conclusion many of […]
7 ideas for getting in the Vortex
“Once you have practiced the vibration of what’s in your Vortex long enough that you own the frequency of it, and there is no gap between you right here where you stand and the vibrational reality in your Vortex—then those objects, those relationships, those desires, those answers, those solutions that you have been asking for […]
Is micromanaging getting in the way of manifesting?
How do you think about what you want to manifest? How do you ask for what you want? Are you demanding? Are you controlling? Do you micromanage? Are you short-sighted? I’ll bet your first reaction is to say no to all the above. No, Jennifer, I’m not demanding or controlling. But I’ve been noticing this: […]