• Love Your Life #096: Be careful what you make circumstances mean

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how you might be lowering your point of attraction because of what you’re making circumstances mean. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why dividing circumstances into columns of good […]

  • Love Your Life #095: Identify as belief:  I’ve never been one to…

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about whether your identity is getting in the way of manifesting what you want—and what to do if it is. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Four prompts you can […]

  • Here’s why you want what you want

    I want to start a regular yoga practice. Do you know why? Because I think I’ll feel better. My friend wants to buy a place on the beach. Why? Because she thinks she’ll feel better in the having of it. My client wants a beautiful, satisfying, romantic relationship. Why? Because she thinks she will feel […]

  • Does it serve you to be triggered—by anything?

    This post is about being triggered. I want to be very clear upfront: I’m not qualified to talk about triggers that result from trauma. This episode is not about PTSD triggers. I’m talking about a more casual use of this term, such as when someone says, I didn’t get the job offer and that triggered […]

  • Love Your Life #084: You really do want it because you think you’ll feel better

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why you want everything you want—and how embracing this concept is key to leveraging Law of Attraction. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why I want to start a […]

  • If good things happen I can be happy

    There was a time in my life I wouldn’t even have understood the question: Are you only happy when circumstances are right? Well, obviously. If good things happen—things I like—I can be happy. But if bad things happen—things I don’t like—I will be unhappy. Get the raise, book the vacation, lose five pounds, I feel […]

  • Love Your Life #067: Are you only happy when circumstances are right?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about whether you are relying on circumstances to be a certain way in order to be happy. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… A time in my life when my […]

  • How to figure out what decision to make

    This is about making decisions. In particular, decision-making when you’re unhappy about some circumstance or situation in your life. Here’s what I’ve been noticing. Often we make a decision when a situation gets really bad. When the pain is great enough, we decide to leave, to quit, to stop, to give up, to go in […]

  • Do you believe these 7 myths about Law of Attraction?

    While there are many false beliefs about Law of Attraction, I’m going to focus on seven myths I hear frequently. Myth #1: Law of Attraction only works for some people. Or a variation on this myth would be: Law of Attraction didn’t work for me. OK, so here’s the thing: Law of Attraction is working […]

  • Here are four things negative emotion is telling you

    Many of us are feeling negative emotion, but misunderstanding what it’s telling us. So let’s start there. Here are four things negative emotion is telling you.  1. When you experience negative emotion, it means you are thinking about what you don’t want or don’t like. “Every negative emotion, no matter how strong or mild it […]