• 4 ways hard work is not the path to Well-Being

    How many of us think hard work is the path to all the things we want in life? The abundance, the lifestyle, the achievement of goals. Many of us were raised to believe hard work is how you get what you want in life. How you’re able to accomplish and achieve. Many of us believe […]

  • Love Your Life #046: Hard work is really not the path to Well-Being

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about hard work and why it’s not the path to Well-Being. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How what you believe about hard work may be getting in the way […]

  • Embrace contrast as your friend, not your enemy

    Every instance of life is presenting you with contrast. When you’re commuting to work… When you’re in a meeting with your boss… When you’re picking the kids up from school… When you’re talking to your spouse about finances When you’re exhausted at the end of the day… At any given moment, contrast—which is the variety […]

  • It’s a great big beautiful world, but…

    It’s a great big beautiful world out there. Full of amazing wonder. And we’re living in an incredible age. Full of possibility. And, of course, we’re also living in a world filled with things that vex us. That are not the way we want them to be. Or think they should be. World tolerations There […]

  • Here are 12 things that get in the way of ease

    My word for the year is ease…the absence of difficulty or effort. Just thinking about ease makes me take a deep breath and relax. Even feel a little happier. My life already has a lot of ease in it. I’ve made certain choices the last few years to move toward ease. Leaving a career I […]

  • Do the footwork and stay out of the results

    Do the footwork and stay out of the results. Do the footwork and stay out of the results. That’s what you’d see on any given day if thought bubbles appeared over my head. For instance, I’m thinking it right now because I want to write a blog post that resonates and is useful to you. […]

  • Warning: Your serenity and sanity are at risk

    Are you so overwhelmed that you don’t have the time or energy to do anything about why you’re overwhelmed to begin with? It’s a maddening conundrum, isn’t it? Your To Do list is mostly undone, work has reached its tentacles way beyond an 8-hour day, and life keeps presenting you with unexpected hurdles. Most days […]

  • The struggle between competency and calling

    I sometimes ask clients to list all their competencies—all the skills they’ve acquired over the years. When pushed to brainstorm a little longer and dig a little deeper, most come up with quite a long list. Then I ask them to put a line through all those they don’t really enjoy doing. It’s amazing to see […]

  • 4 ways to uncomplicate your life

    Have you ever said, It’s complicated as a reason for not making the changes you say you want in your life? Your work situation is complicated. Or your marriage. Your financial situation is complicated. Or your relationship with your parents or kids. One of the reasons we keep our lives so complicated is so we […]

  • What do you do after you say, I don’t know how?

    What do you do after you say, I don’t know how? I’d like to find more meaningful work, but I don’t know how. I’d like to start a blog, but I don’t know how. I’d love to try travel hacking, but don’t know how to do it. I know it’s time to negotiate a higher […]