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  • I complain way less than I used to

    I suppose most of us complain. We express dissatisfaction or annoyance with something—complain either with words spoken aloud or with the thoughts in our heads. Do you complain? I do. Since my obsession with all things Law of Attraction, I now realize complaining is focusing on unwanted, which is very bad for manifesting what is […]

  • #204: Is your vibration one of complaint?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about three common reasons to justify complaining—and what you want to do instead. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Whether I think complaining is the end of the world when it comes to Law of Attraction What […]

  • It is not your job to get rid of the unwanted

    None of us intends to include what we don’t want in our vibration. Your vibration is what attracts circumstances and conditions, people and things, situations and events. And since you want to attract wanted into your life, you intend for your vibration to only include what is wanted, right? At times, though, many of us […]

  • Why paying attention to everything is bad for manifesting

    We are all observers because an observer is simply someone who watches or notices something. But are you what I refer to as “merely” an observer? As in only an observer. As in solely an observer. Because if you are merely an observer most or all of the time, you are very likely lowering your […]

  • Many of us are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted

    Here’s something I’ve noticed: Many of us, without realizing it, are activating a vibration of unwanted rather than wanted. Here’s why that is so important: You cannot focus on unwanted and receive wanted. Which bring me to one of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction: The Stick Analogy. Think of going out […]

  • #178: The past, future, and present of regret, worry and complaint

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about three ways to recognize when you’re focused on unwanted and lowering your point of attraction. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… One of my favorite ways to think about Law of Attraction How to know which […]

  • Why is the same thing happening over and again?

    Recently several clients have come to coaching because they are frustrated or confused or discouraged about repeatedly attracting the same unwanted situation into their lives. This might sound like: Why is the same thing happening over and again? Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing? Whether it is the same unwanted type of […]

  • #176: Why do I keep attracting the same unwanted thing?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how to shift your energy when you’ve been attracting the same unwanted thing into your life. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What’s going on when you want something new and different, but don’t understand how […]

  • This is important: Expectation is a focus with a vibration

    Are you expecting what you want? Or are you expecting what you don’t want? Why on earth would you expect what you don’t want? That doesn’t make any sense, does it? And yet…that’s what so many of us do. We expect the very things we don’t want. I want to talk about expectation, why it’s […]

  • Contrast is helping you clarify what you like and want

    What is contrast clarifying for you right now? Do you know? Before you answer, let me back up and ground us in a simple definition of contrast so we have the same understanding. Contrast is simply the variety of life. You are constantly being exposed to contrast. It’s happening all the time. Often when my […]