• Love Your Life #271: This is what I’ve found works for me

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the vibrational difference between guidance and control. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why you feel friction when someone doesn’t take your advice Why control doesn’t feel good What many of us say we’re doing rather […]

  • It’s a great big beautiful world, but…

    It’s a great big beautiful world out there. Full of amazing wonder. And we’re living in an incredible age. Full of possibility. And, of course, we’re also living in a world filled with things that vex us. That are not the way we want them to be. Or think they should be. World tolerations There […]

  • Don’t look now, but you’re creating results

    You’re creating results all the time. Whether you realize it or not. When you… Hit the snooze button for the third time. Put your relationships on the back burner. Don’t pick up the phone and make that call. Postpone working on your dream. Choose screen time over real-time connecting. Refuse to ask for help. Procrastinate […]

  • The story of the worst boss I ever had

    She was a taskmaster. Never celebrated a single achievement. Always raised the bar higher with each success. Nothing was ever good enough. She set entirely unsustainable work hours. Frowned on vacations and believed weekends were time to get extra work done. The client was always right—even if it meant staying until the wee hours to […]

  • Not now doesn't mean not ever

    Not now doesn’t mean not ever

    I’m a collector of mindsets. I notice them in myself. I listen for them in other people. I love reading about them. I write about them. I try them on to see what the world looks like through their lens. And I’m always on the lookout for mindsets I haven’t encountered before. Several years ago […]

  • Throwing an adult-sized tantrum

    Thinking the worst and throwing a tantrum

    Last week I received news: Something I wanted very badly might not happen. I would like to say I calmly sat down, said the Serenity Prayer, and did the work of teasing out what was in the change category versus the acceptance column. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; […]