• Love Your Life #250: Are you facing the facts?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about what facing facts and being “realistic” have to do with manifesting. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What happens when you face a reality you don’t want The question to […]

  • Love Your Life #210: Does your belief need to change to manifest?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the boundaries of your beliefs and how those boundaries are affecting your ability to manifest what you want. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What’s at the root of […]

  • Love Your Life #075:  It’s time to disregard how things are

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about taking your attention off what-is if the “reality” around you isn’t what you want. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. Do you spend a lot of time thinking and talking about what-is? Well, stay tuned because this episode may […]

  • Love Your Life #048: Do you need to tell a better story?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about telling a better story—about your past, present, and future. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What happens when you regret your past and worry about your future Why we […]

  • You will never hear me say, “You need to face reality”

    Facing reality is a really, really bad idea unless you want to create more of what-is. “Many around you want to point out “reality” to you. They say, ‘Face the facts. Look at what-is.’ And we say to you, if you are able to see only what-is—then by the Law of Attraction, you will create […]

  • Love Your Life #028: Attention to what-is creates more of what is

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why it’s a bad idea to focus on facts and face reality because attention to what-is only creates more of what is. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How […]

  • Tale of two stories (Aka: What you focus on is what you get)

    A few years ago, Hans and I were between our old house and new digs. Construction delays on our new place meant moving into a hotel. What was originally supposed to be three months turned into six. That’s 173 days. But who’s counting. That’s where these two stories begin: We were 63 days into our […]

  • It’s a great big beautiful world, but…

    It’s a great big beautiful world out there. Full of amazing wonder. And we’re living in an incredible age. Full of possibility. And, of course, we’re also living in a world filled with things that vex us. That are not the way we want them to be. Or think they should be. World tolerations There […]

  • You’re too old and just not that lucky

    One of my superpowers is detecting limiting beliefs and false assumptions. They’re rotten for your confidence and your future. You know, thoughts like I’m just not lucky or I’m too old to make a career change. Here’s what I believe: There are enough external obstacles in life without putting internal ones in your way too. […]

  • Get unstuck with these 3 easy questions

    I love having tools at the ready in my toolkit. Sometimes the simplest tools are the best. They let you get in, get what you need, and get on with life. So here’s a tool I rely on to sift through mental clutter, gain insight into the crux of the matter, and then move forward. […]