• Are you one of the people Abraham is describing?

    “There are no happier people on this planet than those who decide that they want something, define what they want, get hold of the feeling of it even before its manifestation and then joyously watch the unfolding as, piece by piece by piece, it begins to unfold. That’s the feeling of your hands in the […]

  • Are you focused on the essence or the package of what you want?

    If I were to ask, Are you focused on the essence of what you want?, what would you say? Would your answer be yes or no? Or would you say, Essence? I’m not even sure what that is. I’ve found the distinction between package and essence to be a really helpful analogy in my own […]

  • Love Your Life #203: Are you focused on the essence of what you want?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about a really helpful analogy about the package and the essence of your desire. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The pitfall of being overly fixated on the package of […]

  • Do you know what you want?

    When I ask someone, “Do you know what you want?”, often she’ll answer with a question of her own: “What do you mean?” Do you mean what are my goals this year? What do I want to achieve? Or do you mean… what do I want to do with my life? Are you asking me […]

  • Love Your Life #012: Are you enjoying the evolution of your desire?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the problem with postponing how you want to feel until you get what you want. You’re going to find out whether you have it backwards when it comes to pursuing goals and going after shiny pennies. To access this episode, […]

  • Love Your Life #010: How to create a vision portfolio—that really works

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how to create a vision portfolio that really works. As in helps you attract the things you want. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. I created a high vibe, Law of Attraction-inspired vision portfolio that’s become an integral part […]

  • Are you suffering from Rigid Goal Syndrome?

    Rigid Goal Syndrome is a deal breaker and door closer. Let’s take Mary as an example. Mary has a goal: To buy into a cafe franchise that serves beverages and foodie-oriented morsels. She pursues her goal—researching available options, identifying the right franchise, filling out a lengthy application, strategizing with her spouse how to pull off […]

  • 5 questions to figure out what you crave

    Some people are lucky. They’ve always known what they crave. Others (like me) have done the heavy lifting of exploration to figure it out. And still others are waiting. Hoping it will become clear. Hoping for a flash of insight. Well, the flash may indeed come, but what if it doesn’t? And while you’re waiting, […]

  • The day I decided to move to Sweden

    A few months ago I decided to move to Sweden. It was during the summer heatwave and the thought of a cooler climate sounded so appealing. As did being someplace more urban. I liked the idea of downsizing too. After all, Sweden is the birthplace of IKEA—the master at utilizing every inch of space with […]