• 5 ways to be more selfish

    Imagine we’re sitting together over a cup of coffee or tea, and I look you in the eye, and say, You’re so selfish. How do you feel? Have I insulted you? Or complimented you? Being thought of as selfish is a bad thing, right? I mean, who wants to be called selfish? It’s not exactly […]

  • Love Your Life #234: What Martha said about circumstances

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how your relationship to and with circumstances tells you a great deal about your LoA practice.   To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why I love discovering a really […]

  • Are you efforting your way through life?

    Are you enjoying your long To Do list and efforting your way through life? Are you enjoying taking massive action and making incremental progress? Are you enjoying the results you get when you take action from a frustrated, overwhelmed place? Many of us are taking massive action in an attempt to compensate for the fact […]

  • Love Your Life #222: If you have trouble with the idea circumstances are neutral

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about a strategy to help you be a more deliberate creator if you’ve been pushing against the LoA tenet that circumstances are neutral. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What happens when you divide circumstances into columns […]

  • Start with the premise that alignment is always available

    What’s guiding me when it comes to alignment these days is two-fold. First, say yes to what’s in alignment, and say no to what’s not. Sounds pretty simple, right? I think of this guideline as being a gatekeeper of sorts when it comes to alignment. If from the get-go I make decisions through the lens […]

  • Love Your Life #219: A distinction I’m practicing about alignment

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about what’s guiding me when it comes to alignment these days. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The guideline about alignment that works as a gatekeeper A real-life example of using this guideline to make a decision […]

  • Are your daily decisions and actions downstream?

    This post is about how I run a downstream business. I’m going to share examples from my coaching practice and business about what I mean by downstream. I want you to look for Law of Attraction behind the examples. Because that’s really the point: To see how daily decisions can be made and actions taken […]

  • Love Your Life #217: Here’s how I run a downstream business

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how I run a downstream business—and why this episode applies to you even if you’re not a business owner. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How my definition of success shifted from focusing only on external […]

  • Are you compromising your own alignment?

    Too often we compromise the vibration we are offering because we are worried about others or wanting something different for them. You worry about the toll stress at work is taking on your husband. You want things to be better for your sister and get upset when she doesn’t follow your advice about how to […]

  • Love Your Life #215: Are you trusting and teaching?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about trusting and teaching as we look at these concepts through the lens of Law of Attraction. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How you could be compromising your own vibration because of your focus on others […]