Gunk of Low-Energy Living: personal standards

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about five ways you can raise your personal standards, thereby improving your point of attraction.

Here’s my question to you: Do you think you need to raise your standards? You’ll soon find out!

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • The connection between your personal standards, your vibration, and your point of attraction
  • Why complaining about work has consequences for other areas of your life
  • What you attract when you gossip
  • One way to create a life-changing shift around negative self-talk
  • The personal standard I’ve upgraded in a big way that has me taking responsibility for my own feelings
  • How thinking you know what’s best for others is low vibe—even when your intentions are good


“When you improve your point of attraction, the Law of Attraction must bring you circumstances, events, relationships, experiences, sensations, and powerful evidence of your shift in vibration. It is law!” —Abraham

“Complaining about anything holds you in the place of refusing to receive the things you’ve been asking for.” —Abraham

“If you’re complaining about how bad it is, what you’re creating is more of how bad it is.” —Jack Canfield

“Complaining will attract more things to complain about. —Abraham

“If we give out thoughts of grouchiness and complaining, etc., we’ll find more to complain about. If we send out love and affirm ‘life loves me’, then we are drawing experiences to ourselves that prove it’s true.” —Louise Hay

“Finding lack in others is not the path to liking what you see in yourself.” —Abraham

“Life is very simple. What I give out comes back to me. Today I choose to give love.” —Louise Hay

“I monitor my self-talk, making sure that it is uplifting and supportive of myself and others.” —Louise Hay

“What you think about activates a vibration within you.” —Abraham

“As you think thoughts that feel good to you, you will be in harmony with who you really are.” —Abraham

“Take credit for your own point of attraction. Don’t blame anyone for what’s happening to you, because no one is doing anything to you, they’re just co-operative components.” —Abraham

“You can find yourself in an endless loop where you explain that you feel negative because of the negative behavior of someone else. But if, instead, you take control of your own emotions and you think an improved thought because it feels better to do so, you will discover that no matter how the negative trend got started, you can turn it around. You have no real control of what anyone else is doing with their Vibration (or with their actions, for that matter), but you have complete control over your own thoughts, Vibrations, emotions, and point of attraction.” —Abraham

“You can appreciate the relationships around you, but you can’t fix other people’s problems. You can teach by example, but you can’t create their reality for them.” —Abraham

“It is not your role to make others happy; it is your role to keep yourself in balance. When you pay attention to how you feel and practice self-empowering thoughts that align with who-you-really-are, you will offer an example of thriving that will be of tremendous value to those who have the benefit of observing you. You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive or sick enough to help sick people get well. You only ever uplift from your position of strength and clarity and alignment.” —Abraham
I know so many of you want to be an uplifter. But you can only truly be an uplifter from an aligned state.

“Make lists of positive aspects, make lists of things you love and never complain about anything.” —Abraham

“We want this to be the poetry for the rest of your life…mind your own business! Nothing that concerns you is outside of you.” —Abraham

“You’ve been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” —Louise Hay

“Line up your energy and leave your partner alone. Stop giving other people the responsibility for the way you feel. It’s the only place you’re ever going to find freedom.” —Abraham

“We want you to free yourself of the bondage of believing that it’s your job to make things right for all people. It’s their job to create their reality. It’s your job to create your reality.” —Abraham

“The only thing that holds you apart from Source Energy is that you complain about this, and you worry about that, and you don’t like that, and you blame that. You vibrationally hold yourself apart from the Life Force that is evidenced everywhere around you. So what we are encouraging you to do is practice getting in the flow. Appreciate. Bask. Applaud. Acknowledge Well-Being, and you will receive it back a thousand-fold in every day that you offer it. Every day.” —Abraham


LYL #049: “My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook.”

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