Love Your Life #198: Focusing on what you want to be different in your mate
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about what happens when you focus on what you want to be different in your mate—and what you want to do instead. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why this […]
How to figure out what decision to make
This is about making decisions. In particular, decision-making when you’re unhappy about some circumstance or situation in your life. Here’s what I’ve been noticing. Often we make a decision when a situation gets really bad. When the pain is great enough, we decide to leave, to quit, to stop, to give up, to go in […]
Love Your Life #054: Why to make decisions from high end emotions
Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about making decisions when you’re unhappy about some circumstance or situation in your life. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why it’s not a good idea to quit your job […]
Is it hard to decide what to cut from your life?
Our To Do lists are long, we’re in a perpetual state of overwhelm, and it feels like too many days are slipping away. But when it comes to deciding what commitments to cut, what obligations to drop, what stuff to get rid of, and what routines to simplify, we get stuck. We won’t even take […]
Are your thoughts in the direction of joy?
To better understand the Law of Attraction, see yourself as a magnet attracting unto you the essence of that which you are thinking and feeling. And so, if you are feeling fat, you cannot attract thin. If you feel poor, you cannot attract prosperity, and so on. It defies Law. —The Law of Attraction: The […]
Sometimes I don’t like the answer to this question
Every month I do a monthly check-in of what I call the 4Rs—the Right questions to Reconnect, Recalibrate, and Recommit. The session takes about an hour. I reflect on the past month and answer a series of 20 thought-provoking questions that help me reconnect to what I want for the year, recalibrate my goals, and […]
Here are 12 things that get in the way of ease
My word for the year is ease…the absence of difficulty or effort. Just thinking about ease makes me take a deep breath and relax. Even feel a little happier. My life already has a lot of ease in it. I’ve made certain choices the last few years to move toward ease. Leaving a career I […]
Pesky tolerations are more costly than you think
Imagine I ask you to name 3 results you want to create in your life. You name them. Then suppose I ask, What might get in the way of achieving those 3 results? Even before you tell me, I know the answer. Let’s try it right now. First, you have do your part and reveal […]
Yeah, but I can’t ignore the rest of my emails
This is Part 2 of a post about inbox zero. Be sure to check out Part 1: Why inbox zero is the wrong measuring stick I typically get pushback at this point about the argument against inbox zero. The “Yeah, but…” begins. Yeah, but I can’t ignore the rest of my emails. Yeah, but I […]
Are you worried people won’t like you if you set boundaries?
Boundaries act as a filter—letting in the good stuff that enhances you and keeping out the bad stuff that diminishes you. You may find it difficult to set boundaries because you put others’ needs and feelings first, feel you don’t have the right to declare what is and isn’t OK for you, and worry setting […]