• Are you pre-paving against yourself in these 4 ways?

    “You are pre-paving your future experiences constantly by what you think and feel and say.” —Abraham When you think something is going to be difficult and you feel overwhelmed and say how hard it is…guess what? You are pre-paving your future experience. When you are filled with positive expectation and excited about something you’re about […]

  • Love Your Life #133: Are you segment intending against yourself?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about four ways you might be segment intending against yourself. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… Why pre-paving is important and how to do it more deliberately What the process […]

  • Are you pre-paving what you desire or what you dread?

    We all know someone who never fails to paint a picture of what could go wrong. Who always anticipates the potential for problems and disappointment. Maybe YOU are that person. Do you act as if worrying and thinking about what could go wrong is a “cushion” for the bad event, the unwanted test result, the […]

  • You need to read this if you’re a worry-wart

    Worry is a slippery thing. On the one hand, it feels like something positive you’re doing. An expression of caring about someone or something. You worry… your recent graduate will have trouble finding a “real” job. your spouse won’t get the promotion at work. your sibling isn’t taking care of his health. your friend is […]

  • Throwing an adult-sized tantrum

    Thinking the worst and throwing a tantrum

    Last week I received news: Something I wanted very badly might not happen. I would like to say I calmly sat down, said the Serenity Prayer, and did the work of teasing out what was in the change category versus the acceptance column. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; […]

  • Are you all about the worst-case scenario?

    Do you regularly steel yourself for the worst? Does your mind take a little information and run with it into the future thinking about negative scenarios? When faced with anything new or outside your comfort zone, do you assume you’ll fall short, it won’t work out, or that something catastrophic will happen? My spouse says […]