Gunk of Low-Energy Living: negative people

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about how to deal with negative, low-vibe people.

My advice just might surprise you!

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • The two reasons you might be encountering low-vibe, negative people
  • How minding your own business helps you stay in your Vortex
  • Abraham’s advice about lining up your energy and leaving your partner alone
  • Why conditional alignment is a trap and the endless loop where you explain that you feel negative because of the negative behavior of someone else
  • What it means about your own vibration if negative people are driving you nuts
  • Why there’s no magic formula for getting the Negative Nellies in your life to look on the bight side
  • The excuse you may be using if you self-identify as a highly sensitive person
  • The reason you might want to thank the grouchy sales clerk
  • What’s likely to happen with negative, low-vibe people when you start practicing unconditional alignment


“The world is delivering to you the frequency that you are putting out.” —Abraham

“What you are living is the evidence of what you are thinking and feeling, every single time.” —Abraham

“When someone complains to you about anything, just smile and say… ‘Ah, I know, you’re having a Step One moment and you’re getting clearer and clearer about what you want, aren’t you? Good for you. This will pass.’” —Abraham

“What if, if the contrast that you think you don’t want is not something that you don’t want. You’re not being tested by it. It’s a piece of information, it’s a piece of experience, in order to help you formulate with greater clarity what you are wanting. And since you are expanding Beings, since we are all eternal Beings—then, don’t you think it’s time for us to embrace the contrast?” —Abraham

“You’re the only person who thinks in your mind. So if you think others are driving you crazy—you’ve got it wrong: It’s the way you think about others that’s the problem. You can always choose different thoughts.” —Abraham

“You have to be willing to ignore what everybody else is doing and make your relationship with your Vortex the most important relationship that you have.” —Abraham

“Line up your energy and leave your partner alone. Stop giving other people the responsibility for the way you feel, it’s the only place you’re ever going to find freedom.” —Abraham

“You can find yourself in an endless loop where you explain that you feel negative because of the negative behavior of someone else. But if, instead, you take control of your own emotions and you think an improved thought because it feels better to do so, you will discover that no matter how the negative trend got started, you can turn it around.” —Abraham

“I’m stable enough that I don’t need the condition to be perfect in order for me to be in alignment. If negative people are driving you nuts, it’s because you’re wobbly. It’s because you’re not sure about your vibration.” —Abraham

“If their words can bother you, then you are not free.” —Abraham

“Finding lack in others is not the path to liking what you see in yourself.” —Abraham

“Deliberate creation is about feeling good anyway—not letting the behavior or the attitude or the opinion or the beliefs of someone else be so dominant in your experience that it affects the way you feel. That’s what true mastery of Law of Attraction really is.” —Abraham

“Sometimes it seems like others have the power to negatively affect your experience, but that is never true; only your response to them has the power to pinch you off from the naturally good-feeling person you are.” —Abraham

“Let others vibrate as they vibrate and want the best for them. Never mind how they’re flowing to you. You concentrate on how you’re flowing. Because one who is in alignment with Source is more powerful, more influential than millions who are not.” —Abraham

“We want you to embrace this idea of being unconditional in your alignment because once you get it, every condition in your life will rally to support the alignment you’ve discovered in not needing the conditions to be there in order to find the alignment.” —Abraham

“Instead of asking others to change their behavior, your power is in your changing your reaction to their behavior. You have no control over their behavior, but you do have complete control over your reaction to it.” —Abraham

“A messenger can only deliver a message to someone who is a vibrational match to the message. So don’t wear yourself out saying things to people who can’t hear you.” —Abraham

“As you insist on looking for positive aspects in others, in time only positive aspects can be shown to you, for you will have incrementally adjusted your Vibrational point of attraction; and by Law, that must be so.” —Abraham

“Your alignment affects your perception.” —Abraham

“Unconditional love means that while conditions exist that I have no control over, I have the ability to focus myself into alignment.” —Abraham

“Stop asking others to be the change that you need in order to feel better. That is is the freedom that you are looking for.” —Abraham


The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

Love Your Life #003: Is your point of attraction the problem?

Love Your Life #011: Why contrast is useful and what it’s telling you right now

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