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Why are you neglecting that part of you?

Why are you neglecting that part of you?

Is there some aspirational part of yourself you’ve been neglecting? You know what I mean—the part of you that waits for “Someday.” Someday… Someday I’ll get healthy, start a business, find time to express my creativity. Someday I’ll change careers, love myself, take a trip across country. Someday I’ll revive my relationship, write a book, […]

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Are you paying the price of inauthenticity?

Are you paying the price of inauthenticity?

The other night Hans came across a great quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson. “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” He knew the quote would resonate because as an INFJ on the Myers-Briggs I place a premium on authenticity. The quote sparked thoughts […]

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Do you feel like a fraud?

It happens at least a couple times a month. Sometimes while mingling at a networking event, other times across the aisle of a plane. Sometimes it happens when I’m meeting someone new for a cup of coffee or it could be while sharing lunch with others at a conference. It happened twice last weekend at […]

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Why do we make it so hard?

Why do we make it so hard? The “it” being anything and everything—our daily endeavors, To Do lists, relationships, jobs…our lives. Do we believe we have to struggle and suffer—that it has to be hard—for it to work? For us to succeed? That if we do it the easy way it means we aren’t trying? […]

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Are you keeping secrets?

Why are you keeping your goals a secret?

I have a friend, let’s call her Sally, who won’t share her New Year’s resolutions until months into the year…when she confesses her resolution has fallen by the wayside. Three years ago her New Year’s resolution was to stop complaining. How do I know this? Because it slipped out in a conversation in May when […]

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Don't try to be perfect.

Two reasons I really hate this ad

I really dislike this ad. It bugs me every time I read: We all have to do 10 things at once. Perfectly. I have nothing against L’Oreal or Julianna Margules. But I have a lot against perpetuating the notion that we have to do 10 things at once. Says who? Isn’t it time we stopped buying […]

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