• The truth is hard to escape

    Our life always expresses the result of our dominant thoughts. – Soren Kierkegaard Ouch. This is one of those expressions that hits home, whether we want it to or not. Because what if we look around at our lives and don’t like what we see? The truth is hard to escape. The problem is often […]

  • Is this your particular form of insanity?

    Our days are full of decisions. Hundreds of choices, big and small. From the mundane of what to wear, what to eat for breakfast, which route to take to work… To the potentially life-altering of whether to change careers, go to counseling or get a divorce, start exercising, make time for creativity… Every single choice has […]

  • Distinction: Moving away from versus moving toward

    I don’t want to be in debt

    There are some questions that almost guarantee an interesting conversation. What’s your ideal life? is one of them. Which is why I love asking this question. I’ve noticed, though, in describing their ideal life, most respond with a laundry list of what they don’t want. I don’t want to be in debt. I don’t want to […]

  • Are you unwilling to get out of debt?

    It’s amazing how often I hear someone say, “I can’t do that” when they really mean “I’m unwilling to do that.” Sound familiar? The potential list of “can’ts” is endless… Do you tell yourself “I can’t do that” when it comes to something outside your comfort zone? I can’t raise my fees. I can’t leave my […]

  • Doing one thing a day

    Doing one thing a day

    My clients have big dreams—start a business, live debt-free, move to another country, lose weight and get healthy, write a book, reinvent themselves at mid-life… A question I frequently hear: How can I get from where I am to where I want to be? The answer is simple Well, the answer is not all that […]