What-is & Wanted vs. Unwanted: self-help

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about why I’m done with self-help—and finished with focusing on problems. To access this episode, join LYL Premium.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • How hundreds of self-help books caused me to change careers and how I then shifted from self-improvement to Law of Attraction
  • The book I stopped reading halfway through because it was too depressing and why I prefer unicorns and rainbows to negativity
  • How our brain is like Velcro for negative experiences but Teflon for positive ones
  • What we can learn from Appreciative Inquiry and Positive Psychology about looking for what’s right
  • 4 distinctions to help you shift your energy and a radical idea to ask your intuition about


“Beating the drum of the problem condition does not bring you to the solution ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever.” —Abraham


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