What-is & Wanted vs. Unwanted: what-is

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about your current reality and the all-important distinction between leading what-is versus following what-is.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • The distinction I heard from Abraham that I encourage you to put in your LoA toolkit
  • Why offering your vibration in response to what you are observing could get in the way of manifesting what you want
  • The reason many of us are getting a mixed bag of manifestations
  • How the focus of your attention and therefore your thoughts is saying yes, yes, yes—even when that’s not what you intend
  • The consequence of only being able to see the facts of what is in your life today
  • How you could be pre-paving the very things you don’t want
  • Five tips for where to place your focus if you want something new to show up in your life experience


“Emotion is vibration. What you give out is what you create.” —Abraham

“It doesn’t matter what you thought or did a year ago, a week ago, a day ago or a minute ago. The Universe is only ever responding to what you are thinking and feeling now.” —Abraham

“What you are living is the evidence of what you are thinking and feeling every single time.” —Abraham

When you acknowledge what you do not want, and then ask yourself, ‘What is it that I do want?’ you begin a gradual shift into the telling of your new story and into a much improved point of attraction. You get the essence of what you think about—whether you want it or not—because Law of Attraction is unerringly consistent. Therefore, you are never only telling the story of ‘how it is now.’ You are also telling the future experience that you are creating right now.” —Abraham

“You are pre-paving your future experiences constantly by what you think and feel and say.” —Abraham

“Expectation is a focus with a vibration that permits the receiving of what you’re focused upon—and, you expect things, both wanted and unwanted.” —Abraham

“You are actually pre-paving your future experiences constantly…. You are continually projecting your expectations into your future experiences.” —Abraham

“Pre-paving is about expecting it to turn out well and knowing that it will, and anticipating a wonderful day, and wanting to be in alignment with your Vortex and being in the receptive mode, and having fun interaction with others.” —Abraham

“I don’t have a belief problem, I have a focusing weakness. I focus on what’s loudest instead of what feels best.” —Abraham

“Focus yourself so much on the things that are working that you crowd out the things that are not working.” —Abraham

“Find something that makes you happy and fixate on it. That is the answer to all things. It’s the answer to getting everything that you want.” —Abraham

“Look around less, imagine more.” —Abraham

“Don’t try to fix things that feel broken, just focus upon things that give you lightheartedness and joy and ease until you make that your vibrational lifestyle and then see what happens to every relationship in your life experience.” —Abraham

“Never mind what-is. Imagine it the way you want it to be so that your vibration is a match to your desire. When your vibration is a match to your desire, all things in your experience will gravitate to meet that match every time.” —Abraham

“But Abraham, you mean I’m supposed to make stuff up?!?! You are creators, you make stuff up all the time.” —Abraham


The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

LYL #015: You are pre-paving your future. Is it full of potholes?

LYL #019: How to reverse the evidence of the senses

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