How to Feel Better: what you want

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about five reasons you might be feeling bad about what you want.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • What Abraham says pure desire feels like vs. the uncomfortable feeling many of us experience when it comes to wanting
  • How to know whether you’re focused on the presence of your desire or the absence of your desire
  • The reason to relax and let the Universe pick the timing of your desired manifestation
  • What’s often going on when you talk yourself out of what you want or give up on your dreams
  • How to stop holding yourself in a vibrational pattern that doesn’t match what you want


“Unfortunately, many people think that the uncomfortable feeling of wanting something they do not expect to experience is what the feeling of desire is; they no longer recognize the feeling of pure desire as that fresh, eager feeling of expectancy that they knew when they were younger. The feeling of pure desire is always delicious, as it represents the vibrations that are stretched out before you, into your unseen future, preparing the way for the Law of Attraction to match things up on your behalf.” —Abraham

“Doubt is the way you feel when you are focused in a way that is contrary to what you want.” —Abraham

“When you want something that you believe, it feels good. But when you have a desire that you doubt, then that desire does not feel good because the vibrational content of your desire and the vibrational content of your belief does not match. Negative emotion is simply present when you are thinking in opposition to your own desire.” —Abraham

“When you are thinking about your new X from a place of worrying that you cannot achieve it (or frustration that it has not yet come), you are actually focused on the absence of X and you are not allowing it into your experience.” —The Law of Attraction

“You are never going to come to the end of your pile of desires! Every time a desire is born within you, and you line up with the feeling of it (not the feeling of the absence of it) it will flow easily into your experience.” —Abraham

“Everything that you want is coming. Just relax and let the Universe pick the timing and the way. You just trust that it is coming and watch how fast it happens.” —Abraham

“The Universe knows the perfect timing for all those things you want, and will find, through the crack of least resistance, the best way to deliver it to you.” —Abraham
“Your Inner Being will never guide you towards the most efforting way. Your Inner Being is always lighting up the most delightful, most satisfying, most intoxicating, most life-giving, breath-inspiring way.” —Abraham

“If the impulse comes and it feels good, follow it. But if the impulse comes and it feels like efforting, then back off a little bit.” —Abraham

“Many of our physical friends really believe that they must find a desire and then hold tenaciously to it. And we say, you do not need to do that. Let the variety of your life keep balance in your life. You just concentrate more on holding yourself in the good-feeling place where you’re letting it in.” —Abraham

“‘Could I think too little about my desire, for it to manifest?’ Actually, no, because as the contrast launches the desire, and then you do not offer any opposing thought, then you’re letting it in, and it will manifest.” —Abraham

“The entire Universe is conspiring to give you everything that you want.” —Abraham

“When the desire is born, right away you start counting yourselves a failure, because you’ve got this desire that hasn’t been satisfied. Know that you never get it done! And since you never get it done, it’s time to stop being unhappy about what’s undone, because most of it is undone! You are an eternal being. Most of it is undone. Instead of taking score about what’s been achieved — we want you to start feeling anticipation about what is still to arrive…” —Abraham

“The only reason you have not already received what you desire is because you are holding yourself in a vibrational pattern that does not match the vibration of your desire.” —Ask and It Is Given Cards

“What true patience is, is knowing that you want it and knowing that it’s coming and actually enjoying the unfolding along the way. Understand that you never get it done. So you might as well be patient. You never get it done, because every time you want and receive, you also receive a new perspective from which to want. Life is a constant unfolding of new desires and then a constant alignment to those desires.” —Abraham

“We want to help you understand the preciousness of the unfulfilled desire. If you could, in this moment, begin to feel appreciation for the fact that the desire exists, and feel anticipation about its unfolding, rather than instant disappointment that it has not manifested, your Energy would clear up by 95%. And your manifestation would begin to flow to you so much more easily.” —Abraham


The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham

Ask And It Is Given Cards

Law of Attraction Reading List

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