#144: Why are you helping someone dig a hole?

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about what focusing on the problem has to do with digging a hole.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

• The phrase I jotted down in a notebook from an Abraham workshop a year ago that is still resonating
• What’s really happening when your friend calls to complain about her marriage
• The flawed premise at work when you encourage someone to talk about their problems
• What I’ve realized is considered “normal” about so many conversations we’re having since my obsession with all things Law of Attraction
• The two reasons you don’t want to be a sounding board for problems and complaints
• What you should skip next time someone comes to you with a grievance or worry

Quotable

“There’s no point in digging a great big deep hole and then helping someone out of it. Don’t dig a hole to begin with.” —Abraham