The other day a client asked this during a coaching session: Am I being naive to believe LoA? Should I be pragmatic? What if I believe and then it doesn’t work?
Have you ever found yourself questioning along these same lines?
I’m going to address these specific questions about believing in LoA, and I’m also going to talk about what’s happening when you question any belief that you would like to hold on any subject.
Let’s start first with questioning Law of Attraction.
Questioning as in wondering whether it’s naive to believe in LoA. Worrying it’s not pragmatic—meaning it’s not realistic or sensible. Wondering if it will really work for you.
If you are wondering, questioning, worrying about any belief you would like to hold—whether about LoA or something entirely different—that questioning itself is a signal. And it’s a signal you want to pay attention to.
Asking Am I naive to believe in LoA? is an indication of a wobble in this belief. Which means you have a wobble in your vibration around this belief.
I want you to hear this loud and clear: A wobble in your belief—and therefore a wobble in your vibration—is a sign of trouble when it comes to manifesting.
“It is that you do not allow because you do not believe. What you believe regarding anything that you want is extremely important—for you will allow only within the boundaries of your beliefs. And so, in many cases your beliefs must be altered to harmonize with your intentions.” —Abraham
Abraham is saying that what you believe matters. What you believe—about anything, about everything—is critical.
Because you create from your beliefs, and you can only create what your beliefs support. Or, as Abraham puts it, you only allow within the boundaries of your beliefs.
Your beliefs are creating your reality. And so if there’s a wobble in a belief that you need in order to manifest something you want, that’s an issue.
Think about it this way: The wobble in your belief is itself creating. The wobble is attracting.
When you have a wobble in your belief about something, and therefore a wobble in the vibration you offer, it’s a sign of doubt. Doubt is #13 on the emotional scale, so we’re pretty far down the scale.
Doubt is a negative emotion. Doubt is not a vibration that creates what you want.
When the vibration you offer is doubt—again, that’s about any subject, not only Law of Attraction, when the vibration you offer is doubt, you attract situations and events, conditions and circumstances, people and things on the same frequency of doubt.
I know that is not what you want. Not a single one of us is walking around saying, I would love to have more doubt in my life. I would really like to experience more uncertainty, more confusion. I just love that feeling of indecision. Of course not!
There is an uneasiness when you experience doubt.
The unease of doubt, the waffle and wobble of doubt, is the opposite of the downstream flow of energy you want to be creating and attracting from. Doubt is the opposite of your powerful creative energy when you have an inner knowing, when you have certainty and conviction, when there is clarity in your vibration.
When you vacillate between your desired belief and doubt, you leak a lot of energy. You want to believe and head in the direction of your belief, but then you doubt and head in the direction of doubt.
Let’s be clear: There is zero upside to walking down the pathway of a belief vibrationally, and then returning to the starting point of uncertainty or undecidedness, and then once again walking down the pathway of the belief, yet again to return to questioning, to uncertainty, to disbelief.
That is contradictory energy.
- I would like to believe in LoA, but I’m not sure I believe.
- I would like to believe in LoA, but what if LoA isn’t true?
- I would like to believe in LoA, but maybe it’s silly to believe.
- I would like to believe in LoA, but what will others think?
Wobble, wobble, wobble.
That wobble is the mixed vibration of you splitting your energy.
And you know what? That wobble doesn’t feel good. When you want to hold a belief, but have doubt about your belief, you feel negative emotion.
“When you want something that you believe, it feels good. But when you have a desire that you doubt, then that desire does not feel good because the vibrational content of your desire and the vibrational content of your belief does not match. Negative emotion is simply present when you are thinking in opposition to your own desire.” —Abraham
That’s what doubt is. Doubt is you thinking in opposition to your own desire.
My client was saying, What if I believe in Law of Attraction, but then it doesn’t work?
Can you see what’s going on with her vibration? The first part of the question has the desire to believe, but then the second part negates it. That contradiction, that wobble, that doubt is not serving her.
The vibrational content of her desire and the vibrational content of her belief do not match.
I’ll say it again: A wobble in your belief—and therefore a wobble in your vibration—is going to get in the way when it comes to manifesting what you want.
I’m not here to convince you of any particular belief, including whether to believe in Law of Attraction.
I am here, though, to encourage you to get the wobble out of your beliefs.
A wobble in any belief you would like to have, a wobble in any belief you need to hold to create what you want means there’s work to be done. Belief work.
You want to choose your beliefs with intention. You want to choose beliefs that serve you and the life you want to create. And you want to release thoughts that keep you from feeling aligned with your desired belief.
If you need help getting the wobble out of your beliefs, schedule a coaching session with me where I can offer personalized guidance.
By the way, I’ve been asked: Jennifer, do you ever question Law of Attraction? Do you ever question whether it works?
My answer: No. I do not question it. I believe.
I have made the decision to hold this belief.
So it really doesn’t cross my mind to entertain any thought to the contrary. I know thoughts to the contrary wouldn’t feel good and would certainly be counter-productive to manifesting what I want.
I choose to believe in Law of Attraction. I choose this way of showing up in the world. I choose the philosophy and lifestyle of LoA. That is what I give my energy too.
I do not split my energy between this belief and the doubt of thoughts to the contrary.
“You create your own reality. Reality is just a figment of your imagination. Law of Attraction will bring you evidence of everything that you believe. A belief is just a steady, chronic transmission of vibration.” —Abraham
That’s really such a fantastically juicy bit of wisdom from Abraham. Law of Attraction will bring me evidence of everything I believe. The same is true for you.
And a belief is just a steady, chronic transmission of vibration. Doubt distorts and disturbs any chance at a steady, chronic transmission of vibration.
So in order to clean up your vibration, it’s time to get the wobble out of your beliefs.
Choose your beliefs with intention by choosing beliefs that support what you want to manifest. And then feed those beliefs with thoughts, and only thoughts, that are in support of your belief.
“The evidence does not support your belief. The evidence was created by your belief.” —Abraham