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Love Your Life #134: Pay attention to the rumble strips of your vibration 

Start, Stop & Change: vibration

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about four simple ways you can tend to your vibration and improve your point of attraction.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • What Abraham says every negative emotion means
  • The feedback that negative emotion is always giving you about your point of attraction
  • How negative emotion is like a rumble strip and why this is such a useful analogy
  • The reason you can start to veer off the road, so to speak, with you vibration in only 17 seconds
  • 4 simple ways to improve your point of attraction that you can start using today


“Every negative emotion, no matter how strong or mild it is, means you are pointed in the opposite direction of what you are wanting.” —Abraham

“When you feel bad, you are in the process of attracting something that will not please you, and it is always because you are focused upon the lack of something you want. {The Process of Pivoting is the conscious decision to identify what you do want.} We do not want to imply that the feeling of negative emotion is a bad thing, because, very often, in the feeling of negative emotion, you are alerted to the fact that you are in the process of negatively attracting. And so, it is like a “warning bell.” It is part of your Emotional Guidance System.” —Abraham

“You create the vibrational atmosphere which equals your vibrational point of attraction, and then, the Law of Attraction matches you with things like you.” —Abraham

“Tend to your vibration when you can do something about it. Don’t wait until the momentum is so strong that you can’t do something about it in this moment.” —Abraham

“The only thing that matters is what you are doing right now in your vibration. And you can tell what you are doing in your vibration right now by the way you feel.” —Abraham

“That which you think, in any moment, attracts unto itself other thoughts that are like it.” —Abraham

“Hold a thought for just 17 seconds and the Law of Attraction kicks in. Within 17 seconds of focusing on something, a matching vibration becomes activated. And now, as that focus becomes stronger and the vibration becomes clearer, the Law of Attraction will bring to you more thoughts that match.” —Abraham

“Negative emotion always means the same thing, every single time… My thought or behavior is moving in opposition with who I really am and what I really want.” —Abraham

“When you improve your point of attraction, the Law of Attraction must bring you circumstances, events, relationships, experiences, sensations, and powerful evidence of your shift in vibration. It is Law!” —Abraham

“Negative emotion is your best friend because it’s telling you in the moment that you’re heading in opposition to what you want, that you are creating your reality by default.” —Abraham

“By paying attention to the way you feel, and then choosing thoughts that feel the very best, you are managing your own vibration, which means you are controlling your own point of attraction—which means you are creating your own reality.” —Abraham

“You are so free, you can reset your vibrational point of attraction every single day of the world. That’s how much freedom you have. That’s everything! That’s everything!” —Abraham


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