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Love Your Life #069: How to reach for a better-feeling thought 

How to Feel Better: better-feeling thoughts

Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction.

Today we’re going to talk about how to reach for better-feeling thoughts.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn…

  • Why reaching for better-feeling thoughts is a skill you probably need to improve
  • 10 things I’ve learned about reaching for better-feeling thoughts from working with my coaching clients
  • The problem with trying to jump too far up the emotional scale
  • Why there’s no universal list of thoughts that will bring you relief
  • What Abraham wants you to get hooked on asking
  • Why this is thought work and not about taking a walk or a bubble bath
  • The reason a statement of rainbows-unicorns-butterflies could make you feel worse, not better
  • How to avoid overcomplicating whether a belief serves you


“Rather than trying to monitor your thoughts, we encourage that you simply pay attention to how you are feeling. For if you should choose a thought that is not in harmony with the way that broader, older, wiser, loving Inner Being part of you sees it, you will feel the discord; and then you can easily redirect your thought to something that feels better and, therefore, serves you better. ” —Abraham

“I like knowing that the amount of time it will take for me to go from where I am to where I want to be is only as long as it takes me to find a better-feeling thought.” —Abraham

“Reach for the best feeling thought you have access to.” —Abraham

“When you care about how you feel and you’re willing to pivot and turn your thoughts towards better feeling things, you will quickly begin the positive deliberate transformation of your life.” —Abraham

“Get hooked on asking: ‘Which thought feels better?’ Let the feeling of relief become what is most important to you.” —Abraham

“All of your power is in your choice of thought. All of your power is in your ability to focus your mind upon those things that cause you to feel good when you focus upon them.” —Abraham

“Beneficial beliefs feel better when I think them… There are things in your environment—that you believe—that match what you want. And there are all kinds of things in your environment that you believe that defy what you want. How would you ever sort them out? How do you know the active beliefs within you that serve you well and the active beliefs that do not serve you? How do you know the beneficial beliefs from the detrimental ones? The beneficial beliefs feel better when you think them. The detrimental ones feel worse when you think them.” —Getting into the Vortex Cards

“Your decision to reach for a thought that feels good is a powerful decision, for it serves you in many ways. The better-feeling thought reverberates within you, opening passages to Well-being that reach far beyond this one good-feeling thought.” —The Teachings of Abraham Well-Being Cards

“If you can just remember that anytime something feels uncomfortable, just stop where you are and acknowledge that it’s just a matter of reaching for better feeling thoughts. Reaching for a feeling of relief works the resistance out of everything.” —Abraham


Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires

The Teachings of Abraham Well-Being Cards

Getting into the Vortex Cards

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