• Here’s why you want what you want

    I want to start a regular yoga practice. Do you know why? Because I think I’ll feel better. My friend wants to buy a place on the beach. Why? Because she thinks she’ll feel better in the having of it. My client wants a beautiful, satisfying, romantic relationship. Why? Because she thinks she will feel […]

  • The Law of Attraction quote that changed my life

    “Let your standard of success be your achievement of joy. For in the finding of joy, you are finding vibrational alignment with the resources of the universe.” Wait a minute?! What?! Success = joy? Achieving joy is achieving success? You mean, not more money or that promotion? Not a new car or bigger house? Not […]

  • You’re too old and just not that lucky

    One of my superpowers is detecting limiting beliefs and false assumptions. They’re rotten for your confidence and your future. You know, thoughts like I’m just not lucky or I’m too old to make a career change. Here’s what I believe: There are enough external obstacles in life without putting internal ones in your way too. […]

  • Pesky tolerations are more costly than you think

    Imagine I ask you to name 3 results you want to create in your life. You name them. Then suppose I ask, What might get in the way of achieving those 3 results? Even before you tell me, I know the answer. Let’s try it right now. First, you have do your part and reveal […]

  • Tough love: It’s time to stop indulging in confusion

    You know how sometimes you hear something that changes everything? This happened to me the other day while listening to a podcast at the gym. Here’s what I heard: Don’t indulge in confusion. I nearly flew off the back of the treadmill. I’m pretty sure I shouted, You’ve got that right! because several people nearby […]

  • Is it crazy to quit your job when you’re successful?

    Remember a few years ago when I quit my job and everyone said I was crazy? Remember that? People said, But you’ve already invested so many years in your field. And, But the money! How are you going to replace a six-figure salary? And then there was this: You want to be WHAT!? A life […]

  • Not now doesn't mean not ever

    Do you treat a setback like a stop sign?

    How many times does something not happen when you want it, the way you want it and you act like it’s the end of the story? You didn’t get the promotion. It doesn’t look like the trip to Europe is going to happen. Another month passed and the house hasn’t sold. Your new business idea […]

  • On my nightstand: Confidence is the stuff that turns thought into action

    In a good book the best is between the lines. –Swedish Proverb Here’s what I’m currently reading— Most women can easily recite areas in their lives where they wish they felt more confident. I hear it all the time.  I wish I were confident enough to… ask for a promotion change careers set better boundaries […]

  • Being present: Spending your day as you want to spend your life

    “How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.” —Annie Dillard Life is not beginning tomorrow or next week or next year. It’s not beginning when that promotion finally materializes or when a romantic partner comes along. It’s not beginning when the economy gets better or when those 10 pounds are […]