• You do not need others to be different to feel good

    What does it mean when you encounter low-vibe, negative people? And how should you deal with them? This could be your boss or a colleague at work. Perhaps it’s your negative spouse or low-vibe mother-in-law. Maybe it’s a good friend or your next door neighbor. Or maybe you are encountering low-vibes and negativity from the […]

  • Love Your Life #036: How to deal with negative people

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about how to deal with negative, low-vibe people. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. My advice just might surprise you! This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The two reasons you might be encountering low-vibe, negative people […]

  • Are you pre-paving what you desire or what you dread?

    We all know someone who never fails to paint a picture of what could go wrong. Who always anticipates the potential for problems and disappointment. Maybe YOU are that person. Do you act as if worrying and thinking about what could go wrong is a “cushion” for the bad event, the unwanted test result, the […]

  • Love Your Life #014: Why I’m done with self-help (and talking about problems)

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about why I’m done with self-help—and finished with focusing on problems. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… How hundreds of self-help books caused me to change careers and how I […]

  • Love Your Life #003: Is your point of attraction the problem?

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. In today’s episode we’re going to talk about 4 ways your point of attraction may be creating a life you don’t want. Do you think your point of attraction might be a problem? You’ll soon find out! To access the entire archive of episodes, join LYL […]

  • Here’s what happens when you complain and criticize

    Many of us are on autopilot when it comes to behaviors and mindsets that lower our point of attraction. We complain and criticize. We find fault with others and judge all day long. And we don’t even realize we’re doing it. It’s just the backdrop of our daily lives. You blame your spouse for making […]

  • Be careful: What you focus on multiplies

    What you focus on multiplies. Not sure if that’s true? Just give it a whirl. Hop on the negativity train Spend a few minutes thinking about things that annoy you and people who irritate you. List your gripes and grievances. Think about the store clerk who was rude to you and the driver who cut […]

  • Things are always working out for me. What about you?

    As I say yes to life, life says yes to me. Life mirrors my every thought. As I keep my thoughts positive, life brings to me only good experiences. —Louise Hay I’ve heard many people say they don’t like affirmations. That they don’t work. But here’s the thing: Any thought is really an affirmation. What […]

  • Dear Inner Critic: Here are 5 things I want to tell you

    My Inner Critic is a mean girl. And to be honest, I don’t much like her. She’s a glass half empty kind of gal. She’s overly blunt, kind of whiny, and has zero bedside manner. She’s the kind of girl who will pull the chair out from under you if you’re not paying attention. And […]

  • Top 10 Ways Not To Achieve Your Goal

    Top 10 ways NOT to achieve your goals

    1. Keep your goal a secret. Whatever you do, don’t tell anyone about your goal. That way no one can rally around you with support, resources, and accountability. Keeping your goal a secret also ensures part of you is hidden away. What’s so great about showing up in the world in an authentic way? 2. […]