• How to figure out what decision to make

    This is about making decisions. In particular, decision-making when you’re unhappy about some circumstance or situation in your life. Here’s what I’ve been noticing. Often we make a decision when a situation gets really bad. When the pain is great enough, we decide to leave, to quit, to stop, to give up, to go in […]

  • Are you doomed if you don't make the right decision?

    Are you doomed if you don’t make the right decision?

    A client and I were recently talking about how to make a no-lose decision. It reminded me how much I’ve benefited from Susan Jeffer’s approach to decision-making outlined in Feel the Fear . . . and Do It Anyway We’ve been taught to be very careful about making decisions. Very careful as in highly anxious, second […]