• Do these four red flags of confusion sound familiar?

    Think about the past few days. Have you said I’m confused about something? I’m confused about retiring early. I’m confused about whether to stay in my relationship. Do you often say or think, I don’t know? I don’t know if I want to change jobs. I don’t know whether to start my own business. Saying […]

  • Love Your Life #243: I want to talk about clarity vs. confusion

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about four warning signs that you are leaning into confusion. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… The beautifully expressed difference between clarity and confusion What Abraham says about your natural state of being Examples of clarity that […]

  • Contrast is helping you clarify what you like and want

    What is contrast clarifying for you right now? Do you know? Before you answer, let me back up and ground us in a simple definition of contrast so we have the same understanding. Contrast is simply the variety of life. You are constantly being exposed to contrast. It’s happening all the time. Often when my […]

  • Confusion is a poor point of attraction and feels lousy

    Let’s start with this: Confusion is an emotion that serves no purpose. What you attract from the vibration of confusion is not what you want. And when you allow confusion to linger, it creates momentum. A confused, unclear-in-your-mind, I-can’t-decide, I-don’t-know emotional state takes on a life of its own. I’ll put it another way: When […]

  • Love Your Life #132: I think confusion is an indulgent emotion

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the reason confusion is an emotion that serves no purpose. To access this episode, join LYL Premium. This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn… What confusion has to do with your Inner Being Why you don’t have […]

  • Your life purpose: 43 questions you need to ask yourself 

    Are you on autopilot, going through the motions, just getting by? Maybe feeling discontent and a little aimless. Are you struggling with your direction and purpose? If so, chances are you have Compass tolerations. Compass tolerations show up when you’re: Not fully engaged in some part of your life Living out of alignment with your […]

  • Why inbox zero is the wrong measuring stick

    Recently the topic of inbox zero came up with a couple clients. One was discouraged that her attempts at inbox zero had failed. She consistently ended the day with multiple emails remaining in her inbox. Another client was ending each day with zero emails in her inbox, but this wasn’t making her feel more organized […]

  • Are you confused and uncertain about what to do next?

    A client, let’s call her Ann, was complaining about a lack of clarity in her business. I feel fuzzy about who my ideal client really is. Which means I’m also not feeling confident about the services I’m offering—or not offering.  Ann’s marketing strategy was so multi-pronged and complicated that even she got confused trying to […]

  • What 7 questions are on your mind?

    There’s nothing better than a good question. You know the kind. A juicy question that starts the wheels turning. One that invites breakthrough thinking and offers newfound clarity. Those are the kind of quality questions I love. The problem is, sometimes we have to wait a long time before someone asks us the kind of […]

  • Stop using lack of clarity as an excuse

    Do you wish you had more clarity about something in your life? Maybe you’re thinking about changing careers, but unsure what kind of job would be a better fit. Maybe you want to simplify your overbusy life, but have no idea how to untangle yourself from shoulds and have tos. Maybe you’re looking to turn […]