• Are you efforting your way through life?

    Are you enjoying your long To Do list and efforting your way through life? Are you enjoying taking massive action and making incremental progress? Are you enjoying the results you get when you take action from a frustrated, overwhelmed place? Many of us are taking massive action in an attempt to compensate for the fact […]

  • “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done”

    Have you been living as if there’s a point at which you’ll get it all done? If so, this is your wake-up call. I clearly remember the first time I heard this from Abraham: “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done.” Oh my! I had tears in my eyes when I […]

  • Love Your Life #029: “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done”

    Welcome to Love Your Life + Law of Attraction. Today we’re going to talk about the permission slip I didn’t even know I needed and wanted. It came from Abraham: “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done.” To access this episode, join LYL Premium. So here’s my question to you: Have […]

  • Your worth and productivity do not equate

    How much did you get done today? How many tasks did you mark off your To Do list? And how do you feel about yourself? Are you someone who feels good when you get lots done, but not so great when you’re less productive? Because here’s the thing: Your worth and productivity do not equate. […]

  • Are you living without margin?

    Are you living without margin?

    Living without margin means…  Back-to-back appointments. Errands stacked like dominoes, one after the other. Deadlines with no time to spare. Everything blurred together in an endless, task-driven loop. Getting through this so you can go on to that. No wiggle room. No breathing room. A life with margin means… a ridiculously doable To Do list sensible expectations unclouded by […]

  • These 6 habits guarantee life is a struggle

    Are you crazy busy? Do you tend to complicate things? Find yourself getting stuck in confusion? Are any of those how you get in your own way? Or maybe you’re easily distracted. And struggle with what’s a priority—and what’s not. Even find yourself putting productivity ahead of people. If any of these sound familiar, read […]

  • We all have the same 24 hours in a day

    I’m so busy. There aren’t enough hours in the day. It’s a familiar refrain I hear a dozen times a week. I overhear it standing in line at the bank and from the next table over at lunch. I hear it from clients, friends, and the barista at my favorite cafe. And it makes me […]

  • What if you stopped participating in busy?

    Today I hopped on a bus that was running late. In an attempt to make up time, the driver drove at least twice the speed limit, which meant slamming on the brakes for each stop to pick up and let off passengers. And since the bus stops are not overly far apart, this meant driving […]

  • Saying “it’s complicated” is just a big excuse

    Do you have a special talent for making things difficult, overly involved, convoluted? In other words, for making life more complicated than it needs to be. Perhaps you’ve created a complex process for filing your emails, recycling the garbage, celebrating holidays or tracking your finances. And do you find yourself defending the complexity by saying, […]

  • Did you see the bear coming out of the porta-potty?

    In the past, I never would’ve clicked to read anything about a bear. Or a porta-potty. I was too busy and certainly didn’t have time for frivolous. Which makes me realize this: I’m so much less serious than I used to be. I laugh more. Play more. I don’t work as many hours. I take […]